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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

My buddy used to have tarantulas and while I fucking hated and was scared shitless by them, they apparently had recognizable personality quirks and habits according to him. Shiver Creepy little bastards though

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 hours ago (4 children)

Birds. Though her favorite thing is also birds. This...can create issues.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Ah well, unfortunately the community name is set, there's no changing it after it's created. Maybe I should've made it more searchable but hopefully we can spread it by word of mouth enough where it'll take off. Also I kinda wanted it less intimidating clinical sterile sounding and more just a homey place where people can feel safe to talk openly, just a li'l reprieve from the outside world.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Connect is wonderful! Posting from that. I don't know if they have an iOS version but I'm on Android. Very much like RiF, feels familiar

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I don't like religions in general and a lot of the reason is the shitty way (some) adherents feel they can treat women and other minorities and it's just a-okay dandy because their magic li'l book told them it's okay. I went to that wedding I mentioned when I was just a pre teen and it really sorta cemented the fact that there's so much bullshit going on with that and just....no one deserves to deal with that. Just love each other and be happy y'all, it doesn't seem so complicated to me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

You can share them to fellow humans here now /c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Well if you give up before you start just because the existing options are shitty then that makes you part of the problem, doesn't it?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 hours ago

Oh shit, thank you, I knew I forgot something

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

Yeeah agreed. So this is specifically not gonna be about that and if I see any of that shit it's getting nixed.. I just want all these guys who have no where to turn to to...well, have somewhere to turn to. Each other.

 

After seeing so many people feel so ostracized I wanted a community they could feel welcomed in. This is I hope going to be a positive male-orienated space. No alpha male Peterson bullshit, no sexism, no putting down people, this is a space for men to bring each other up and vent their issues they would otherwise be judged for to people who will understand and build them up rather than bring them down.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Aw shit I mean uhhhhh no?

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Not uh sure what to say here. Never done anything like this before but I've grown tired of seeing so many people hurt so badly in so many comments. This space is meant for people who identify as male to air their grievances and come together as a community to help build each other up. Sexism will NOT be tolerated, this isn't a "complain about your partner" club, nor will dumb made up shit like alpha male Peterson bullshit. Otherwise feel free to talk about what you're unable to talk about in your daily life or just whatever I suppose so long as it isn't shitty to a group in general.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 hours ago

Too bad for them I made one

 

Edit: Nevermind, got it figured, thank you though!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

Just the wife. It was all about "serving God" and "by serving man you show your devotion to God". There were uhh...ripples of unease going through the wife's side when all that was said to put it lightly.

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