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ah, my bad - sometimes I'm a bit socially clueless 😅 I thought there was a misunderstanding.
another good point - frugality is separate from poverty, I guess in some ways that even tracks my experiences with poverty - I am able to be more frugal out of poverty than in. Reminds me of that James Baldwin quote, "Anyone who has ever struggled with poverty knows how extremely expensive it is to be poor."
That makes sense! My own experiences with stocking up has been more fear-based than based on any actual calculus of what I use and at what rate, so I end up buying a huge bag of rice that goes unused for years, and I'm always just eating really old rice, lol.
So, yeah - stocking up in an unplanned and spontaneous way is a completely different approach than planning your food consumption and buying with bulk discounts at the right times.
This is a big concern I have had in the past, and a big reason for my stocking up as well. I went through periods of food insecurity in the past, so I would stockpile food almost as an emotional security blanket. It's been a hard thing for me to finally let go, but I have been slowly working my way towards a more reasonable approach to my pantry.
Thanks for your good ideas and tolerance as I stumble through our interactions - I appreciate your patience ❤️
Hey, we're all clueless about things sometimes right! 😅 💖
What you said about the fear-based stocking up is so real. It's an easy way to try to feel like you're in control when you have suffered from food insecurity in the past or when you're nervous about the state of the world generally. It makes total sense that you had that experience!