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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Well, that whole civil union thing didn't really work out so well and those same people were still (and are still) homophobic to the extreme so why give them anything? They are clearly not interested in compromises anyway.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

And why the fuck is there a compromise position at all? Bigots don't have a right to discriminate against people. If they don't want to get on board they can fuck off.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

What happens when that attitude ends up creating more biggots and we find ourselves even more outnumbered. I dont know what the best solution is but surely its not to alienate a full third of the entire population and expect that to work out well for everyone.

On a personal one to one level i do agree they can fuck off. But from an observing the reality of living in a country that just elected a fascist, im worried all the demanding people accept things they disagree with lest they be shunned, its just going to lead to more pushback against trans and other vulnerable people.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I dont know what the best solution is but surely its not to alienate a full third of the entire population and expect that to work out well for everyone

A full third of the population is already alienated. It's not working well for anyone. I'm simply saying we should leave a full third behind in the dust if they don't want to give up bigotry. These people are not helpless, they know that they're wrong, and they're doing this shit anyway. Compromising with them is exactly why we elected a fascist.

And to be clear, conservatives drove this, they had a million opportunities to turn around, and refused every time. I'm not the one who brought us here.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

Again i agree with this 100% on a personal level, my concern is just that it seems like that third is growing and the other side is shrinking due to increasing in fighting. Im not really sure what the solution for that is, i just think its a bad trend and leads to more hostility.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

How didnt it work out? It lead to eventually getting marriage equality world wide, in large part because those first states tried to do civil unions.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

By your logic, when they freed the slaves, they really should've done it slowly instead of all at once, because look how many racists it made!

Or was civil rights too fast as well?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Im not sure you have my logic correct... Im not saying we should do things slower, im saying its concerning how black or white everything has gotten, everyone has purity tests and if you dont pass you arent worth engaging with and im concerned that will have a lot of negative consequences and lead to increased hostility.

I am sharing an observation, not suggesting a solution. I am saying the way things are is concering and while i hope for a positive outcome (one where people are accepted for who they are) i see a lot more pushback than acceptance with the current strategy/mindset.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It certainly did work out in many countries, which transitioned from it to Marriage for all in the end

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks to the people who were in favor of marriage equality in the first place, not thanks to the bigots who wanted "civil unions" instead. Those are even more vicious in their bigotry these days.