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submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Hey dad, I know that we've not been close for quite some time now. I really hope that at some point that could change, but for right now, all I want is for you to say that you are proud of me. It really hurt when you didn't even aknowledge me getting my A-levels years ago, and that when I got my Bachelor's you told me that all students are stupid.

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[-] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago

I'm not your dad, but I'm proud of you. Not for the A-levels, not for the Bachelor's, but for the effort and work you put in to achieve those milestones. Getting through school is hard. It's like having a job with several bosses all wanting to be your first priority, each one with different requirements for how they want the work done. That takes a lot of patience, a lot of time management, a lot of sacrifice, and as above, a lot of work.

The diplomas and degrees represent those things. I'm proud of you. You're going to have plenty more opportunies to be patient, manage time, sacrifice, and work - and not all of them are going to have concrete rewards as evidence. Be proud of yourself; there's no shame in that.

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

And for pushing through in spite of the active efforts to display your achievements.

Well done, and all the very best for whatever comes next!

this post was submitted on 11 Jun 2025
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