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In my heart I'd like to deliberate more, weigh things out and research more sometimes, but in my day to day life I find the inaction and indecision I experience forces my hand in a way to be more decisive. We shape the future through actions and decisions--not deciding and allowing status quo or laissez-faire to continue is a decision with consequences. Pretending that inaction doesn't have horrifying consequences is something I overcame in my 20s at work watching various people, managers scared to make choices--and then suffering the consequences.
Hasty, rushed or imprudent decisions are damaging, but I don't know I'd say they are any worse than inaction in my experience. I make decisions and try to allow for the best information available, based on knowledge that there are no perfect decisions or outcomes and be ready for what follows--which good or bad, will probably be another decision!