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Moderator banned from their own community for practicing harassment (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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Its a shame because they're prominent voice on lemmy. Good on the admins for not tolerating this. I don't understand the point of targeting a person you don't like on the internet just because they said something that upset you and spamming their post with downvotes. If you don't like someone block their ass and be done with it. I agree with the perspective that its harassment (and an incredibly petty ineffective form of it at that)

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Blahaj policy is very explicitly that it’s a safe space, and transphobia and transphobia-adjacent content (and other forms of bigotry) will be removed. It’s supposed to be somewhere people can go and have it taken as axiomatic that their neopronouns are valid, and therefore they won’t have to debate them, so while it’s pretty reasonable to say that you’d prefer people grew to be happy with they and neopronouns didn’t become a permanent feature of English because they’re awkward, it’s not Blahaj-friendly, so can’t be said on Blahaj, especially if you’re going to repeat it a lot.

But not only did I explicitly say that I was willing to use neopronouns, but my ban from Blahaj was over something said OFF of Blahaj entirely, long after I stopped using Blahaj. Namely, I said that I didn't believe that dragons were real, and for that reason, Ada was summoned, and thought that was a great reason to instance ban someone who hadn't even used Blahaj in months.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Yeah. The whole thing is stupid. I'm moderately confident that this is either:

  1. People ganging up as a very organized effort to try to bully you out of the space as they did FlyingSquid, when you (I think with every righteous reason) decide this bullshit is unpleasant and unfair and you don't feel like putting up with it anymore. I've already semi-abandoned the political spaces on lemmy.world, not even because I was getting bullied with any level of success, but just because the overall flavor of the interaction is so toxic and fact-free.
  2. People who are just operating on pure tribalism. It's fine for them to accuse you of all kinds of stuff you objectively didn't do, call you a twat and a loser, all kinds of stuff. It's not fair for you to argue about politics or downvote people, those are evidence of toxicity and sins. Because they're on the "right" team and you're on the "neoliberal enemy" team, so they can do what they want, you can't. Reminiscent of a popular political viewpoint in the US...

Honestly, I wouldn't even stress about it. I get the impulse to try to defend yourself vigorously from this stuff but they're not going to listen to anything sensible anyway, and they'll be able to cherry pick instances of you getting upset to use later as proof that you're some kind of monster. If you want my advice about how to look at it.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Oh, I figure they're not going to listen. But I have the urge to at least put a defense of myself out in public. I have a great many flaws as it is; I'll good goddamned if I let people attribute made-up ones to me without at least being disputed.

this post was submitted on 23 Jul 2025
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