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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (5 children)

I'm cis but I discovered ewphoria on reddit and it was a weird experience.

Then I discovered the weird brand of misogyny that FtM people can fall into when they're trying to hard to pass as a man, that was even more of a shock. Thought FtM people would be strong-anti-misogynists but nope, everyone is capable of thinking they're special

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

If memory serves, when something shitty happens to you because of your gender, but it also affirms your gender and feels... well, affirming.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Like when an old disgusting man makes a disgusting joke about "wife bad" and looks at you with an "am I right or what?"-look. Last time that happened (it was a work colleague) I felt weirdly validated in my manlihood and felt like I'm part of the in group (I'm a cis man, but considerably younger that the other guy, and I was new in that place of work), while at the same time wishing that guy would just disappear into thin air. Disgusting feeling.

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