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[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

You should never date someone you aren’t attracted to. That won’t end well. That doesn’t mean they have to be a ten but you have to be attracted to them

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

What about when you get older.

Personality, sharing hobbies etc is extremely important in the long run, way more than drooling about someone.

Sure, good/ok looks is important but that's not all.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago (1 children)

This.

In this thread everyone is going to be single from 40 onwards apparently.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

I've heard some people develop a taste for older-looking people as they age.