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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh, hon. It's too cold for that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

California. It's about 70°F (21°C) outdoors.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

It's hot in LA, from what I hear.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I'm barefoot.

Ditto - it's 18°C here. That weird gap that I'm still shirtless, barefoot, but my cat is already looking for her blanket.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Im in Winnie the Pooh mode right now… just a shirt.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Trust me, my friend nobody wants that

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

I'm wearing house slippers. The floors are cold so plain socks are not comfortable enough for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

None! I'm barefoot in pajamas right now!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I hope you are in a warm climate.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hiking shoes

Went on a hike today, didn't get home between then and work. Now on the way home from work and looking forward to taking them off!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

They are! Great for walking. For sitting around, I prefer something more loose though. I wouldn't normally wear them to work (even though that's more standing and only some sitting).

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I'm calling the cops

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Converse All Star Hi Tops, red.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Loved mine, but hated that they broke after 2 years of daily use

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Currently not wearing any with my feet on my living room table.

..but normally I wear these. I picked them up on the company tab (cow not included) for use at work a coupleofyears ago, but they turned out to be so damn comfortable and high quality that I use them for everything.

Protective composite toe that don't set off airport metal detectors, and they're ESD safe.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Crocs and socks.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

An old pair of Adidas slides that I inherited when my youngest stepson left them with us when he moved to live with his dad. They’re really work down and I need to replace them soon.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

That's a story right there

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I wear Sanuk Cozy Mats around the house. They’ve got that awesome heel that folds down so you can slip into them and wear them like slippers or pop them up and wear them like shoes. Probably the most comfortable footwear I’ve ever owned. Bought two pairs just in case they stop making them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Sanuks are SO COMFY! I've definitely gone to the store, looked down, and realized I'm still wearing my slippers. I get through a pair o dice each summer.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

They really are, I’ve totally worn mine outside by accident more than once! I had an old pair of suede slippers of theirs for more than a decade before they finally wore out. The stitching and materials are top-notch, it’s clear they care about quality.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

A pair of Lems Chillum shoes. They have a wide toe box and zero drop but still look and act like a real shoe compared to something more “barefoot”. My current daily driver.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I had a pair of "WHITIN" ones from Amazon and as much as I like the wide toe box, the fact that there was no cushion what-so-ever was a deal breaker. I am fine with a zero drop, but cushion is a necessary. When I hear the barefoot argument that "that's how we evolved", I agree. However, hard floors are somewhat of a new thing for humans and cushion is a necessity for me. Also, these look much cooler.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have a pair of Whitin zero drops. I added a heel cup that gives a bit of cushion and changes it from a zero drop to like a 1mm drop. The addition made the shoes feasible for my needs and they're way cheaper than Lems.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Significantly cheaper.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I agree! These have a cork cushion inside, I’m a big fan after wearing for 1 year.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Wool shearling slippers

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

My favorites! Frye fuzzy-inside boots on a snow day!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

House shoes. Been out in the slush and salt a lot, so I can't just wear my boots like i prefer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I think my mother would teleport go my home if she thought I was wearing shoes in bed.

They might protect my toes from a kitten though. Maybe I'll just start wearing very thick socks!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

A pair of black BeLenka minimalist boots with wool lining. They’re very flexible and comfy but still keep my feet warm.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm wearing Converse lugged.. I like these shoes for the $20 I paid. They are very versatile, I use them kinda as boots. I hope they are on sale next year as I plan to buy 2 more pairs.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Gen z alert

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Some icebug brand I think. They're fantastic for wintery conditions.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Manitobah Mucklucks, makawa boot

Amazing. I'm getting more.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Malakalikimaka is the thing to say

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

On a bright Hawaiian Christmas day

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Jet black sneakers. I'm not goth or emo but was feeling all black today (light black tanktop, black plaid shirt which is around my waist, black jeans, and black sneakers, with only a white temple garment bra/panties) because I had to help someone test some cinema technology in a dark environment.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

light black tanktop

Odd way to say grey

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

It's like a burnt or charcoal grey, so just dark enough to wonder if it's considered black yet.