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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Me at any work related event.

Also, I work from home and never turn on my camera. About 80% of my coworkers only know me as a disembodied voice and and I plan on keeping it like that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Idk, human connection and engagement with life and stuff i guess.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

human interaction is voluntary

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think that depends on the environment, so if you are decreeing a univeraal law, I would disagree.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You must still be young in your career. Give it a decade.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Im glad to hear tenure allows you recluse yourself at your specific position and employer at this time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

it's not about reclusion, it's about not being bossed around. i'll show up on a work function if it's relevant. if not, it's literally blocking me from doing my job. same with forced-camera-on meetings. half of them i do work on the side because the meeting doesn't involve me unless it requires a detail i'm well versed in, which means i'd be sitting there silent for half an hour while everyone else can stare into my home. having your camera on isn't about professionalism or camaraderie, it's about control.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That autonomy does sound nice, but it still seems dependent on the environment whether or not participation/engagement is voluntary.

Most of my meetings dont require cameras, some do, because it can make sense to have them on like if im working with a large client or something.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why would your client having more money make the camera requirement make sense? The quality of your work doesn't change either way. Unless you're teaching people sign language or something. Otherwise, it's just about your boss exerting control over you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It establishes trust. It can help differentiate people if you arent great with names. It can show them you care about the meeting. It can reinforce accountability when you know you will be updating someone face to face.

I understand the stance that these things seem superficial but i think thay can be true or false depending on who you are working with, the industry you are working in, and your position.

To be clear, I think it would awesome to not have these things be a factor.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If your boss doesn't trust you to do your job and be accountable unless they see your face, they might be bad at their job (which is organising workflow in a way that facilitates high productivity of their employees). And if they don't trust you to care, they're not paying you enough.

I understand that people can't always change their job immediately, but these micromanagement issues can be red flags towards bigger issues with your workplace. Perhaps you should consider joining a union or another similar organization that protects worker rights.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My boss frankly trusts me too much and doesnt care if cameras are on or not. Its not that weird that people have different ways of dealing with telecommute. I personally want to wfh all the time but some time in office has helped me get better at my job. Even like overhearing how people handle stuff exposes me to situations i havent seen yet. But whatever i realize im going against a lemmy trope.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

man, i work from office basically all the time even though we can work from anywhere and i still don't wan't to be on camera.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I have friends for that

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

What, you don't like mandatory fun? You don't like pretending to be buddy buddy with the people who definitionally are part of a transactional relationship? You don't enjoy being part of the workplace "family" that would disown you if you said the word union around them?

Gosh, I can't believe it!