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[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 years ago (2 children)

/s is an excellent modifier for sarcasm. There's no tone in text and bold/italic can only do so much. And with how many absolute crackpots are posting all over the internet, I'd prefer to be sure to not lump in a jokester with the absolute nutjobs.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Also helpful for people with trouble reading tone in text cuz of things like autism.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

It wouldn't be the first time I get myself into a trouble because of that :(

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

...and writing tone... for the same reasons. 😬

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That’s the only legitimate defense for having to tag your sarcasm I’ve ever read.

Back in MY DAY, nobody tagged their sarcasm on BBS or IRC and we ALL UNDERSTOOD AAAAA (but srsly for folks who have trouble with tone you’re fully right.)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

What are you talking about? Even usenet in the 80s recommended using emoticons to mark sarcasm/joking remarks.

Avoid sarcasm and facetious remarks.

Without the voice inflection and body language of personal communication these are easily misinterpreted. A sideways smile, :-), has become widely accepted on the net as an indication that "I'm only kidding". If you submit a satiric item without this symbol, no matter how obvious the satire is to you, do not be surprised if people take it seriously.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This. I remember having a text file of emoticons back in the day because I couldn't remember what they were supposed to mean (and often didn't mean what I thought). :-/

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

That’s a valid point! I forgot now many emoticons I’d use back then. I’ve always hated pointing out my sarcasm using extra things, though… I prefer to do it using italics, which is reeeeal helpful on Reddit where it goes over nobody’s heads at all.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (3 children)

As someone with autism, I’m here to say that it is actually the opposite of helpful.

People need challenges in order to grow. They need opportunities to fail.

Putting training wheels on sarcasm makes autistic people even further behind the social curve by depriving us of opportunities to fail.

Much like a sterile childhood environment has been scientifically proven to be a causal factor in developing allergies as an adult, I predict that science will eventually establish a causal link between lack of ambiguous communication during developmental years, and reduced intelligence in life.

Human society is so fucking hard to understand for an autistic person, and I really appreciate your looking out for me, but the struggle is worth it, and human culture is intricate and beautiful, and that’s why I chose this username.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Okay but lots of other autistic people I know really appreciate tone indicators so you cannot really speak for everyone. Not to mention, why does knowing that something was meant to be sarcastic hinder learning instead of essentially guessing?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You misunderstand, this is from my own perspective as an autistic person. Plus, the lack of tone of voice over text can make communication harder, for everyone. It’s literally just a tool for communication, clearing up what you mean.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

But that's the point of sarcasm. Jonathan Swift got lots of death threats by mail after writing "A Modest Proposal," and he expected it! If someone doesn't want to risk being misunderstood, they should not write the opposite of what they mean.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

How ever did autistic people survive before the internet to help them cope?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I mean a lot of neurodivergent people literally didn't survive until a few decades ago

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Well that's a massively gross exaggeration.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

To me it's born out of this moment: "Wait, will someone see this joke and think I'm serious? If they did they'd think I'm a psycho..."

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Am i wooshing myself??

That is literally the point of sarcasm. People legitimately wanted to murder Jonathan Swift.

If you write "/s", just write the direct unironic statement in the first place.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If that were holistically true the concept of a "sarcastic tone" wouldn't exist in verbal speech.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

Yes, the /s and sarcastic tone both exist and are used by people.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, we certainly didn't leave that signature sense of superiority behind.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Honestly, that's so much worse here... The atheist posts are making me cringe pretty hard. I'm am atheist, so that's saying something.

It's like we got the best, and the worst, from Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

But I am superior

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

People who need tone indicators aren't stupid

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Not at all -- it's the people who use /s that are dumb.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Correct. They’re merely cognitively insufficient to successfully model the minds of the people they talk to.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Neurodivergent people exist, and they deserve respect too.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Not only neurodivergent people need the "/s". Not all subtle speech cues are easily transmitted through text.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

You shouldn't need speech cues to simply not take anything seriously.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I've run into some pretty fucking stupid people here

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I thought /s meant stupid?

/s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

In a world where the most outlandish opinions are often genuine, it definitely helps to have a sarcasm indicator.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

If you think there are no stupid people here, I've got some bad news for you...

(You might be one of the stupid ones)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I’d much rather have /s than comments that start with, or just say:

This.

Absolutely annihilates my patience towards humanity.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

☝️this /s

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Do you read the comment sections on lemmy at all?

There is just as much stupid here as anywhere else on the internet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Nope, but everybody over here thinks of themselves as smart. Sometimes that's worse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

"This website that I and others like me decided to migrate to is much better than the place I left. That must mean everyone who decided to come here is super smart!"

Don't get so full of yourself that you burst.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

This is some solid grade A pandering. You're aware there's no karma to farm, right?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No, we didn’t. Tons of Reddit trolls are here.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago

wheres ur /s so i know ur not being real 😡