I'm going to be a bit different and say I would be okay with a meta service. If it gets more people into the fediverse. It could end up being a gateway into this realm for many people that may not have gotten here elsewhere. We shouldn't gatekeep people away from our community and also making us more insular. We should be open and able to interact with as many people across the fediverse as possible.
If we defederated from meta because of their ethics then we should all just leave lemmy because of the creators' ethics. We don't get to sit on our high horses AND use lemmy.