“weaponized incompetence”
For me, it was because I dared to do chores differently than how her family did them. You know, like letting the kitchen trash can get full before taking it out. (She wasted a lot of trash bags taking it out early) Or putting socks away without folding them. (Thats how you stretch out and ruin socks)
I'm sure theres some real world examples, but dont pretend I'm a lazy asshole because I do chores differently.