I live in a dry climate and very tightly meter my water usage and running the dishwasher twice uses less water than doing it once by hand unless I am extremely careful and use a single basin of water and a rag to rinse. That takes longer and is extremely annoying to do.
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Make her clean those dishes manually. "Daughter, meet sponge, soap and faucet."
That'll show her...
She needs mandatory wife training so her future husband does not suffer. /S
Dear god, no. I could have taken this exact picture and titled it "My 40 year old wife. Should I get a divorce?"
She needs mandatory me training so just in case she ends up living with me (extremely unlikely lol) or someone equally as anal about this (reasonably possible) she doesn't "force" them to reorder the dishwasher while grumbling under their breath.
If you think "loading the dishwasher" means getting your wife drunk, you might be a redneck.
-Jeff Foxworthy
This triggers me in so many ways.
Don't blame the parent... Kids don't do anything when they know someone else will fix it for them.
Once I moved out, I magically had to do everything myself, and my parents were shocked that I actually kept my house clean, lol
Kids don't do anything when they know someone else will fix it for them.
And who exactly would be responsible for enabling that behavior?
Don't blame the parent... Kids don't do anything when they know someone else will fix it for them.
I will blame the parent because its the parent who usually fixes it for them.
+1 on this one
Edit: you being downvoted tells me there's a group of people who haven't seen adult children revert to child when visiting their childhood home...
Well it just doesn't make sense. "don't blame the parent, they're just enabling bad behavior." ??? Don't enable the bad behavior
Why are you on Lemmy asking children for parenting advice? Seems like most responses are blaming you as if an adult needs to be taught something as rudimentary as loading a dishwasher. Simple solution, box up all the plates, cups, silverware. Replace with disposable stuff
You could always just kill her and eat her organs.
This thread is full of clearly basement dwelling non parents. So many AKctually it hurts from laughing.
Arranging dishes in the dishwasher neatly is only for when there are a lot of dishes that wouldn't fit otherwise. If there are only a couple of dishes, then it's whatever, as long as they get clean, it doesn't matter.
I would encourage you to be more considerate: your daughter is an adult, with her own thoughts and feelings, and her own family. If I were her, I would certainly not appreciate if one of my parent tried to shame me in front of strangers on the Internet over how I load my dishes and threatening to disown me for it, even "as a joke".