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I agree in general - if the situation is me, a straight man, with two straight women, it generally doesn’t sound appealing. I don’t want to be in a situation where I feel like I need to please and divide attention between two partners who are both focused on me. It’s a recipe for performance anxiety and one or both partners feeling left out.

That said, being with two women who are in to me and into each other could be a lot of fun. At that point, there is a lot more flexibility in activity and I would feel less pressure to be the one to make sure both partners are satisfied. Awesome activities: double blowjob, being on the bottom and eating one woman out while the other fucks or sucks on me. Fucking one partner while the other eats the third partner out, watching them two play with each other…

Or being with two women who would both enjoy taking a pause and just watching the action would also be a lot of fun. But I know it takes a certain mindset to be able to enjoy that and not feel left out and/or jealous.

I’ve always thought that a foursome with another couple would actually be easier to manage. This is especially true if everyone is straight in the scenario. This is because, despite there being one more person in the mix, it would be easier to “pair up” and switch around the pairing up such that people aren’t getting left out. Of course, the potential for jealousy and feeling left out remains in this scenario… just a bit less likely.

Since you seem to be good at this… I don’t suppose you know of a source or name for this?

https://lemmynsfw.com/post/19368752

You rock!

As far as I know, “whiskey dick” refers to not being able to get it up, losing your erection, or having a partial erection due to drunkenness.

To your original question, alcohol/drunkenness will often make a guy last longer. I think this is a relatively well known phenomenon.

One reason is desensitization: alcohol tends to numb sensations. This leads to needing harder oand/or longer stimulation to get off.

Another reason is mental state: alcohol tends to help people let go of inhibitions and nerves. Guys (really, people in general) can get anxious about their performance. Worry about cumming too fast is often self fulfilling; the anxiety and focus on the problem makes it happen. Alcohol usually lowers anxiety, keeping that vicious cycle at bay. It’s the same with erection issues. Alcohol can quell anxiety and make it easier to get it up… but it’s also walking a tightrope; too much alcohol and whiskey dick may occur.

Edit: oops, I’m not a lady. Just a dude who has experienced of all these things :p

Same for me - voyager on iOS.

Edit: opening in safari also does not work, which means that the issue isn’t voyager specific and comes down to a more general iOS issue or the format doesn’t work at all on lemmy.

Her butt is so phat the gravitational pull warps floors.

It looks like an oddly worded way to ask a question to straight people. I think the first part of the title would work better as something like “Straight identifying people, have you ever…” or the question could have been asked more generally like “have you ever had a sexual experience that didn’t match with your sexual identity? How did it go?”

That’s some bad photoshop there.

A workaround for you: upvote twice (ie upvote and remove the upvote) to get the post marked as read.

There have been meta discussions on this topic and there really isn’t a clear answer. It quickly devolves into “how do you define NSFW”. And there are good arguments for a broad variety of answers there.

Looking at OP’s particular kink as an example, one argument is that, even though you’re showing completely clothed people, you probably shouldn’t be showing pictures of sexy girls wearing watches on your work computer. It isn’t porn, but I think your coworkers would quickly see that you are getting a sexual kick out of it regardless. on the other hand, most people consider this a porn instance. There are a lot of things that aren’t safe for work that really don’t fit with what most people consider the purpose of this instance (porn).

As I recall, the instance doesn’t prohibit SFW content. It’s just that people here aren’t looking for SFW content and a lot of them are going to downvote SFW content because they don’t want to see it. The instance could try to tell people not to downvote these posts, but that’s not going to do much to change behavior. While some people do follow such guidelines, most aren’t going to follow upvote/downvote guidelines and are going to vote as they wish.

OP is in the process of “discovering” eugenics. Good times.

OP, first thing is terminology. Yes, cosmo and the like have referred to the prostate as “the male g-spot”, but you’re better off using accurate terminology. You are looking for a “prostate massager”, “prostate toy”, or “prostate wand”. You’ll have an easier time finding products if you use those terms.