ChimaericDesire

joined 2 years ago
[–] ChimaericDesire 4 points 7 months ago

Niiightime sharpens, heightens each sensation...

AaaaArrrGhhhh!

[–] ChimaericDesire 18 points 9 months ago

Got me. Got me good.

[–] ChimaericDesire 1 points 9 months ago

When they signed their contract with Farian, they had no idea at all that they would be lip syncing. When they found out, Rob was pissed and confronted Farian, who threatened legal action against them if they didn't complete the contract. They weren't "in on it", they were coerced into going along with it.

[–] ChimaericDesire 60 points 10 months ago (3 children)

They lied about the lip-syncing because doing so was a stipulation of the contract they signed with Frank Farian. The thing Rob and Fab were really guilty of is naivety. They were young and inexperienced and didn't read the fine print. Then, when Fab and Rob threatened to go public, Frank threw them under the bus and claimed he had nothing to do with it, despite the entire thing not only being his idea, but having long been his MO in the industry.

[–] ChimaericDesire 41 points 10 months ago

"They" are not pissed, because Rob is dead. I'm certain Fab is just thrilled to see people being successful because he's a super chill and legitimately talented dude who got screwed over.

[–] ChimaericDesire 1 points 1 year ago

And could you send please warm it up? It's cold.

[–] ChimaericDesire 1 points 1 year ago

This is why I love (most of) our local kink communities. We have several facilities and organizations that are inclusive and supportive of the entirety of our trans community. Almost all of our routine events, like the "$10 Tuesday" events, are very well attended by transpeeps.

I would never in a million years invalidate anyone else's experiences, but in my own circles, I haven't observed any significant difference in acceptance or inclusion with regards to transfems vs transmascs. I can't help but wonder if that's good fortune within my own community, or poor fortune in the OP's?

I really want to know what the broader consensus is? And if OP's experience is the more common experience, how do we address that to change these perceptions? I'm very used to transphobia and the "groomer/predator" accusations outside of the queer community, but I haven't really seen it within. However, it may just miss me as non-binary and not really an explicit target for it?

[–] ChimaericDesire 4 points 1 year ago

That's pretty sound reasoning. I use Matrix and really love it.

[–] ChimaericDesire 8 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I like everything you have to say here. I really hope that this can become a good alternative to FetLife for all things kink, eventually. I like Fet as a platform, but they definitely have some moderation issues among other things, but that's its own discussion for its own topic, I suppose.

I definitely look forward to seeing how things develop here. The Fediverse is definitely a great platform to establish a strong community.

Out of curiosity, is there an interest in having a separate "sister community" explicitly dedicated to kink/BDSM education? I don't know the logistics for something like that as far as Lemmy is concerned, but I can't stress enough how important my local Lifestyle groups have been with regards to education and support, and there are a lot of places that don't have resources like that anywhere nearby. It'd be great to have a sort of virtual alternative for folks that don't have a local kink scene, or that aren't comfortable in such a "public" setting.

[–] ChimaericDesire 41 points 1 year ago (7 children)

I hate using it, but there are some things I just can't find info on anywhere else. Reddit is always a last resort, but it frequently turns out to be the only resource.

[–] ChimaericDesire 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"Pyramida"? Is it a hotel?

[–] ChimaericDesire 6 points 2 years ago

Looks absolutely natural! Fabulous!

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