Hey guys and gals, one of the reasons I deleted reddit (infinity) off my phone was, that I ended up using it primarily as a doomscrolling app for porn. Now that Lemmy is becoming more and more of a thing I downloaded Liftoff (Android App for Lemmy) and I just came across this community while looking for porn sublemmies 💀
I don't really have anything specific to say, I guess just see this as my introduction ;)
What is your peoples history with porn? I stumbled across it at an early age via ads on streaming sites... and have pretty much masturbated exclusively to porn for over a decade now (I'm in my early 20s). I came across NoFap and tried that for 22 days ^^ And I have been trying to restrict myself from watching porn a couple of times in the past. I am currently on a pretty good streak of like 2-3 Months without masturbating to porn, but my libido is essentially non-existant. I do have the urge to masturbate every once in a while, but quickly realize that it's not me being aroused, rather that I want the quick dopamine hit... I am currently seeing a new woman (not a native, sorry if this sounds weird) and I'm kind of feeling the pressure grow, because I would like to sleep with her more than anything (as does she) but I feel like I'm numbed by years and years of porn. I don't even usually get hard when getting touched, less just looking at her naked, the only thing that seems to stimulate my brain enough is touching her and hearing her mourn.
Sorry If this is oversharing, or not the right place, feel free to teach me more about the ways of a lemmy :)
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