Pollux

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[โ€“] Pollux 1 points 2 weeks ago

Beautiful angle

[โ€“] Pollux 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

unwraps

I'd love to see it, my dear

[โ€“] Pollux 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I love the sign on the upper right corner of the picture. Tiny details that matter :3

[โ€“] Pollux 1 points 9 months ago

"Nymph", as translated from Slavic languages.

[โ€“] Pollux 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's often good! giggle

[โ€“] Pollux 6 points 9 months ago

Only monogamous relationship for me, yeah.

I did try other options, friends with benefits and stuff, but nothing actually compares to me, not even close, with the partner who intimately knows me, cares about me on all levels, and knows of all the things that turn me on.

Besides, sex in relationships is a continuation of a deeper feeling, a way to express love and a special kind of gentleness. Yeah, I'd say sex is very romantic to me.

But nothing bad with other options if you're into it! Monogamous folks are often portrayed as boring puritans who tell people what to do, so I'll stress that - you do you, but my drive works this way. And boy can monogamous sex get kinky...

[โ€“] Pollux 1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

No, as I said, I do not welcome hookups and would not appreciate if she'd go randomly fucking with everyone before dating me.

[โ€“] Pollux 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I said already I don't have insecurity about past partners or retroactive jealousy. It's just gross to me.

[โ€“] Pollux 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Yes, that's what I did.

I explained my issue to her in a gentle way and offered the condoms I bought myself. She immediately accepted it, to which I'm thankful.

Also, right on spot, I do have diagnosed OCD.

[โ€“] Pollux 4 points 9 months ago

I see, interesting!

Also, I wish you to recover as much as possible

[โ€“] Pollux 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (6 children)

That's my point - those are not "unexpected hook-ups" (I never feel comfortable with those), those are events in a relationship they could absolutely prepare for, and something that normally comes with a greater level of intimacy.

Changing a bed is unreasonably costly, materially and financially, besides, bed is not necessarily associated with sex.

Getting new condoms is a matter of spending beer money at a nearest pharmacy.

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submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by Pollux to c/asklemmynsfw
 

What are the things you maybe encountered or are generally common that turn you off a lot?

Can share my story as an example. I'm very much a committed monogamous guy, and, for second relationships in a row (fourth total), the girl offers me a condom from an open pack.

They do not use them for their stuff, they literally just kept them for like a year from previous relationships (to which both girls admitted), which is not only a questionable approach to storing condoms (please do not store them in an open box in a random place), but also a giant turn off for me, almost like using sex toys from previous partner.

What are such things in your life? Maybe something that is generally accepted as normal, but makes you uncomfortable? Would love to hear stories from all sides.

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