It's like spokes on a wheel rather than peer to peer. Defederation means it stops pulling content in. So folks from other instances besides lemmynsfw.com won't see comments made from lemmynsfw.com on blahaj communities. Only folks from lemmynsfw.com will.
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I think your goof was the "I can't be held accountable for your mistake of fact". I believe they're clearly the one in the wrong regardless though.
It sucks but it is what it is.
I think it's been an interesting debate. You both make good points. Ads about how "it's similar to Loli in that it is trying to look underaged" and you with "we don't discriminate against youthful looking adults".
I guess I see it like DDLG kinks. I find it gross. I can see why people would want to ban it because they say they're pretending to do something illegal like CSAM, but a lot of links pretend to do something illegal. BDSM pretends to tie people up and torture them but people don't look at it and say "hey, you're intentionally trying to look like you're torturing people against their wills".
People seem to have a gut reaction to illegal things with children moreso than illegal things with adults and I guess that's why some people have this reaction to wanting to "purge" communities like that as opposed to ones that do things like CNC, BDSM, etc. But hey, as long as everyone involved is an adult and consenting that's totally fine.
She like flirts with him and says she was into him or something. It's weird as hell. A good movie though. Just a weird part. It's like the execs were like "we can't have a movie without a romantic subplot!"
Wasn't that a subplot in Hook?
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It's very unclear what it is that you're asking.
This makes me weak!
Personally I draw the line at leashes. But it depends what public means. In more adult spaces, especially somewhere like a club or a dance I see no problem at all. Collars are just sort of like chokers. They just look kinkier.
To be clear I don't think people shouldn't be allowed to use leashes anywhere or whatever, that's just sort of where the personal line is for me. As in if someone asked me "Hey, should I leash up my sub while shopping" I'd say "probably not". It's not like I'd ask someone to please remove one if I saw them.
My wife wanted to try taking some melatonin gummies to see what it would be like while sleepy. It just made her sleepy though lol.
I have a tangentially related issue. Every picture I upload does not preview like everyone else's. I'm uploading PNG images that are 384×512 pixels. They upload fine, it's just that you don't see them until you click the post.
I think folks forget just how young people in their early 20s can look.