I like it but don't get it often. Would rather have it out physically like that, and have it be over, if that makes sense. Only in the bedroom I will give up like that; out in the world, no. Whatever he wants is what matters, because I do like that kind of, well, argument resolution?
That feeling of being scared and mad and turned on is just really intense, and the resulting release so complete that it's a migraine trigger for me, like the weekend after a stressful week at work is. That abrupt relaxation.
Yeah I like it. Not the headache but can manage that & short circuit it with drugs if I know it's coming.
As play? Yes I like that too. Anything that just uses his hands, and is safe. He's stronger than me physically so anything that really shows that, being restrained, subdued, or also moderate spanking or slapping, controlled not out of control. So that I don't have to be, right?
(reposting with smut account, not for privacy exactly, I use same username just to separate post history)
For me it was like being a teenager again but with less frustration because I got more sex. But that sex drive coming out of nowhere was startling - I think maybe your body thinks last chance for offspring, go go go! Like, I run hot usually but early 40s literally felt like 17-20 did.
It was when I learned I was able to have multiple O and also to get off from PIV.
And unless you are asking about age gap stuff, aren’t your partners going to be around your age?
I think you may also be underestimating what a hot commodity you are. I expected to have trouble but when I decided I might try dating more seriously, my handful of casual guys were so interested, I wasn’t because I didn’t like them in that way, but guess even they were fucking around because they hadn’t found someone to settle down with, not because they didn’t want to.