I don't put smoke detector next to my head for every night.
Social conditioning plays big role. Of course there are people who genuinely want become parents. But majority of people think that having a child is an inevitable stage in human life. Because of social pressure most people don't realize that parenthood is a choice. That you can freely say NO to having a baby and nothing will happen. Life will go on, the God won't punish you, skies won't fall on your head.
It's time to unionize