For the moment I'm not saying much specific about it. There's no real big reason, it's just sort of how I like to do things. My parents always joked that I'd come back married one day and not even mention it.
I can try to message you when I'm satisfied with the progress of it. Otherwise I'll be around these posts in the future. After learning this much about networking, I'll feel pretty relieved. I'll be ready for the bigger and more important steps that come next.
When I was young, my elders told me stories of planting trees. Not for myself but for future generations. Instead they took the land, the wealth, the knowledge and the bits of whatever scraps left behind that made them feel powerful.
Then they turned around and insulted me, belittled me and blamed me for not caring enough about their every wants and fragile emotions. Demanded I work harder while they stood there watching me to criticize my every move. Accused me of selfishness for not following all the awful and outdated advice they constantly forced upon me. Hated me for not following step by step in their traditions that caused so much division and suffering. Bullied me for attempting to express myself freely.
They never got around to planting their trees. They just flicked the cigarette butt and watched the other trees burn.
The elders that left me feeling inspired and comfortable with me being myself are so few and far between that it hurts. It's hard for me to not feel betrayed by the majority of my elders.
I want to be inspired to do good from people who already do good things. Instead I feel like my empathy for others is being built up out of spite against my elders actions. Their words are so empty and meaningless to me.
I've also chosen to not let my future self become a burden on the younger people that follow me. I've already chosen my retirement plan. Extreme sports. Wing suit would be fun. I'd easily settle for trying to kick a cop in the nuts.
I've been unimpressed with the Christmas holidays since leaving my first job as a grocery store worker as a highschool student. My family has finally stopped buying me presents except for my mom who insists on buying me some sort of useless novelty item that's functionally impractical. Last year it was a bulky multi-tool pen that was too heavy to write with... Capitalism really sucks the humanity out of everything, especially the holidays.
Not too excited about the family dinner together. My parents and sister will spend the day talking constantly at and over each other while I'll be mostly mute, answering yes/no questions occasionally. I just don't have the energy anymore to correct all thier wildly incorrect assumptions and unnecessary views they have about me based on the useless labels they've applied to me.
The brain has been highly uncooperative over the past weeks but over the last week I've made a lot of progress on a local community project I'm working on. I have most of the groundwork prepared. I've also got a good starting point and mostly clear direction for it as well.
I'm in the process of learning how to self host a lemmy instance. I'm hating every moment of it but I'm making progress. It'll be worth it in the end. After I set up a proper community page I'll be ready to start promoting the idea locally.
I'm still considering creating a related community on another instance. I'm trying to craft this project in a way that is easily accessible and adaptable to the needs of any local community.
At the speed I'm going, and with all the holidays here, I'm hoping to be ready within the first couple weeks of January.
The modem/router also handles port forwarding which has been pretty common on all the modem/routers I've used in the past. Didn't even register that as a concern haha.
That's good to know the Pi can handle DynDNS as well. Would be nice to keep all that information contained to one device, simply for my sanity.
I checked the router settings and there seems to be a setting specifically for Dynamic DNS Client. There's three options included with DynDNS, NoIP and DtDNS. NoIP says it's free so I will probably use that service.
I'm going to assume having that setting there is a good sign for me and what I want to do. Possibly reduce some potential headaches.
I'll consider PieFed in the future as well. It does have some features and ideas overall that seem appealing to me. One thing at a time though.
I do intend to buy appropriate storage when the time comes. It's convenient to backup and restore an sd card image while I figure things out as I'm just starting out.
Would the public IP in this situation just be my home IP address? I'm assuming that the TLD provider would have an account settings page to set the IP reference?
Is there any recommendations for any additional security for a lemmy instance, or is it even necessary for a small scaled, social media site?
I had a very different reaction to my duct tape wallet. I saw a slim, front pocket design online that was exactly what I was looking for in a wallet but I was unable to find one to buy. This was around the time that front pocket wallets just started to become a fad with the mininalism community so they were still quite uncommon.
Used an old thin plastic board as a frame and duct taped the outside. One pocket for cards, one for money and a stretchy band to slip over to prevent things from accidentally falling out.
Everyone loved it because it was so unique I guess. Kept adding more tape to repair it as it aged but eventually I retired it because the old glue was smearing all over my cards and money.
I made many great memories with that wallet since it travelled with me around the world for a good number of years.
The year is 2024, we stuffed a group of people into reservations and federally announced that we don't need to provide clean drinking water to the people forced into those reservations. You mentioned that yourself.
Just because there's no bullets flying does not mean these people aren't suffering. Physically, mentally, it's pain for them. I stand by my statement.
The yikes should be pointed at those to enable these horrifying actions. The yikes should be pointed at those who refuse to acknowledge these horrifying actions.
Proven? Provide proof.
You seem to know what these people need. What are you willing to do for them? Would you rather fight and die for the Country of Canada or for the people whose land has been stolen?
It sucks being forced to pick a side. I hate it. I don't want it. I want to live in peace but bad people keep doing bad things. My life is threatened when any other group of people are targeted. Sitting on the sidelines pointing fingers at everyone just lets the bad people gather more strength. A person's inaction is someone else's death.
To be transparent on my part, I have not done anything to help beyond learning and listening. I am however working on a project currently that aims to bridge the knowledge gap, even just a little bit.
It's easy to say things, a lot harder to do them.
If it came down to it, I'd die fighting for indigenous people. Invading forces means nothing. If Russia or China took over Canada, that just means even more genocide so what's the difference if Canada is already commiting genocide.
I will add though that some band chiefs do not make matters better when money given to them doesn't make it to those who need it. They are as much to blame in modern times as much as the federal government.
I refuse to victim blame. These people were put in shitty conditions. What good examples did these people have after having so much of their people, culture and knowledge eradicated? It seems their examples came from their savage invaders.
Blame the true savages who came with murderous intent. They set the expectations. They spread their greedy culture. They made themselves the adult in the room and beat anyone who disagreed with them, including their own who saw the injustices.
The country I was born in was born itself from genocide. The first people to arrive had worked to erase a whole people, culture and knowledge because there was land and resources to be stolen.
Women were raped, children were stolen, men were killed. Even to this day, you can't go a year without multiple stories of disgusting abuse from the federal police against indigenous people.
The same country who stuck as many of the surviving genocided people into reservations. The same country that federally determined that those same people do not deserve clean drinking water in the reservations they were forced into. My tax dollars are funding a genocide today.
And what does Canada do? Point to China, accuse them of genocide against the Uyghur people. Hypocrisy. Absolute hypocrisy.
I refuse to fight for this country. I don't feel free. I don't see people feeling free. I think I must fight for the people whose land has been stolen over some imaginary borders that denies me the freedom to connect with people.
My ISP blocks incoming data on ports 80 and 443. I also require a Dynanic DNS to handle my changing IP address. The only way I found to obtain a Let's Encrypt certificate is through a DNS challenge in this situation.
I can definitely run without Cloudflare but I won't have SSL which will affect federation.