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I'm tired of the lack of intersectionality when it comes to men being hetero and queer in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

It's not gay if they are a woman (many trans women have dicks) and you are a man. It is by definition straight.

However if a trans woman and a cis woman decided to do it together it would be gay (I should know, I'm a trans lesbian).

I'm tired of the lack of intersectionality when it comes to men being hetero and queer in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

(b) implied they take it up the ass.

FYI That doesn't mean they aren't straight, there are trans women who have the ability and are comfortable doing that, and if a femboy and a trans women are in a relationship like that, it's straight.

The Loving Places! in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How does my home instance lemm.ee fare? Are they a good one?

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Assigned Cock at birth (lemmynsfw.com)
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Male rule (lemmynsfw.com)
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[Vent] Well it's official I'm starting DIY HRT (lemm.ee)
 

Earlier this week I went to see my therapist like I usually do and today I told her that I'd like to start HRT sooner rather than later, I know that people sometimes wait months if not years before starting but I'm not okay with waiting that long. Unfortunately she said that she wasn't sure it would be a good idea and that I should wait longer to be sure. I told her I wasn't waiting and that if she didn't write the note for me I'm going the DIY route, and she told me that that would be a very bad idea since she believes I would regret it due to my unwillingness to "fully girlmode" (which just means she thinks me wearing makeup and having long hair alone isn't enough) and the fact that I enjoy many manly things like bodybuilding. I for some reason mentioned that I could stop after I got the permanent changes I wanted and she responded that if I'm already considering detransitioning it's not a good idea. What the fuck? How the fuck is stopping HRT later detransitioning? That made me so pissed off that I told her to fuck off and I just left early.

I took the advice of someone and decided to go to planned parenthood and just like that I have officially begun my journey. Kinda wish I'd done this sooner, I could've been 3 months along by now if I hadn't tried to go through my therapist like a dumbass. Shame though, I did like her, she seemed nice for a long time but I don't think I can continue to see her anymore if she thinks after all I've told her that I'm in any way at risk of "de-transitioning".

Moral of the story kids, do DIY. It's better to ask for forgiveness than wait for permission. Also be really careful how you choose your therapists, they might seem to understand you but they can screw you over in the last second.

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We're a rare breed I guess (lemmynsfw.com)
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Transfem tomboys rule (lemm.ee)
 

(I'm a transfem tomboy btw)

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Transfem tomboys rule (lemm.ee)
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(I'm a transfem tomboy btw)

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"politics" rule (i.imgur.com)
 

Spoiler alert: No we can't.

I've been purging all my transphobic friends on Steam for this reason, they are cruel and evil people.

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Advice on DIY HRT? (lemm.ee)
submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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I've been in therapy for a few months and I really want to start HRT soon but I don't know if my therapist will write me the required letter. If she doesn't by the end of this month I'm going to start doing DIY, is there anything I should know about the process before I get started, anything I should be aware of? Are there risks or side effects. Things that I should be aware of before going in

P.S. Don't give me any of that crap about detransitioning, you don't know me well enough to say I would, frankly I'll never call myself a boy again, not of my own volition or to capitulate to others.

Edit: Thank you all so much for the information and resources, sorry if I wasn't able to respond to people's comments sooner, things have been hard and I've been busy lately.

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Trans Tomboys Unite! (lemmynsfw.com)
 

(I've always wanted to be a tomboy)

furry_irl in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Thank you I didn't know who made it, I just found it. Added to the post body.

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furry_irl (i.imgur.com)
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Art by VeEight on FurAffinity

We Need to Hold the LW Gatekeepers Accountable in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

Agreed, I wish they'd stop with this whole discourse. Just let me fucking take estrogen. I've been waiting months and talking to a therapist, if I don't get it by march I'd doing DIY. I encourage others to join me, no more shit, no more games. Just Do It.

My current experience dating as a trans woman in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Yeah, though I am more flexible than most people when it comes to that. Many people are either tops or bottoms mostly, I'm happy with both.

Happened to me in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I never feel bad for correcting them when they self-incorrect themselves. I tend to be more on the aggressive side when someone gets it right the first time but then goes "sorry sir". One time I went off on a waitress for doing it, and she looked so scared and deeply regretted it, she looked like she was going to cry. After the meal when she brought the check she apologized profusely for misgendering me. So I think being a bitch about being misgendered is sometimes a good thing. When I've been nice people are pleasant but end up forgetting. But when I'm a bitch, they remember.

It's like spritzing a cat's face with water to get them to stop doing that thing they shouldn't be doing. Unpleasant but necessary.

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Happened to me (lemmynsfw.com)
 

Technically I asked my friend to call me by feminine terms to try it out, but the result is the same. Egg cracked, found out I'm a trans girl.

My current experience dating as a trans woman in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don't mind. I like all kinds of women, cis, trans, tops, bottoms. I just like women.

Feels good to be right, and feels right to be happy in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I didn't even know much I wanted before, or how happy it made me to be called by she/her pronouns for the first time. I'm so glad I found out though, and I'm excited for the future.

Any transmascs willing to open pickle jars? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I can open it for ya, I'm transfem but I'm quite strong.

Massive bonghagalohhogers in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Question, I'm very buff right now and I don't plan to stop working out so I can keep as much muscle as possible, does anyone know how that'll effect the growth when I do get on E?

Massive bonghagalohhogers in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Good to know. I guess I won't be doing anymore weed when I finally get on E 😢

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Are you all having a happy new year? (lemm.ee)
 

I feel like I am, I am admittedly spending New years alone, but considering what happened on Christmas probably would be best not to spend it with my family. I plan to watch the countdown on TV maybe have a Beer or two, nothing fancy.

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