flute

joined 2 years ago
[–] flute 3 points 1 year ago

This is very cute :3

[–] flute 2 points 1 year ago

Thank you so much for the kind words and support!!

[–] flute 2 points 1 year ago

That is true, she did get back to me and didn't ghost me, so I'm relieved to hear that.

I'll eventually get back into dating, but I've got... more pressing things to deal with given my job security has become undone.

[–] flute 2 points 1 year ago

Huh, sounds very interesting!

[–] flute 11 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Last week has ultimately been very crap.

  • Got rejected from interview
  • Found out work may not relocate me to a department that isn't being made redundant
  • Remember last week I told you about that date? Yeah, she came back and basically said she felt no chemistry. I did explain about wanting to kiss her and respecting boundaries (but also it was because she was coughing all evening, and I don't want to be a COVID incubator, matey), and she understood, but she has moved on.

So yeah. Quite frankly the date thing sucks but it isn't stressing me out as much as the whole "lack of job situation". Since I'm planning to prioritize income over dates, I may be a bit quiet for a while.

Oh, and the escort I used to be with (before I took dating seriously, then redundancy happened) texted me last week asking how I was doing as I've been radio silent with her. I explained my work situation, and I suspect she'll leave me alone for now (thank goodness, don't really need any more expenses atm).

[–] flute 3 points 1 year ago (5 children)

... I'm not sure what you mean.

I am a programmer, so I'm aware of coding and stack overflow. I just don't get what you're trying to say.

[–] flute 3 points 1 year ago
[–] flute 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I've always wondered how does foreskin restoration work? How long does it take? Is it painful??

[–] flute 9 points 1 year ago

I've never heard of balling balls. I actually misread it as bowling balls and I thought to myself "man, I can ask this dude to smuggle melons across the border if we ever have a fruit shortage"

[–] flute 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Making your wife cum like that must've been super amazing for the both of you.

Ooh nice, do you mind if I ask which bad dragon toy?

[–] flute 5 points 1 year ago

Seen some on lovehoney for about £20-£50. Not bad, might give them a go!

[–] flute 4 points 1 year ago

Hahaha 🤣 glad to hear it!

And thank you!

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How y'all doing, generally? (self.asklemmynsfw)
submitted 2 years ago by flute to c/asklemmynsfw
 

I've been a bit up and down as of late, but much more recently I've been better, which is nice. Just general work/life stress and all that.

Hopefully folks here will be doing much better than myself.

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What's your hobbies? (self.asklemmynsfw)
submitted 2 years ago by flute to c/asklemmynsfw
 

Mine are listening to music, playing video games, watching films and TV shows (on occasion), and napping (only the best hobbies for me!!)

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How have you got into sex? (self.asklemmynsfw)
submitted 2 years ago by flute to c/asklemmynsfw
 

Is it via a partner? Is it a FWB? Other?

For me, I tried dating and found it incredibly frustrating and mentally exhausting and draining, so I went down the escort route. Also, I live with my parents, so I couldn't find a way to make proper dating work.

I'm in the process of moving into my own house, and I'm planning to try and get some exercise done before I get back into the world of dating.

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