frostbiker

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[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

Overpopulation is a genuine concern of mine,

Developed countries have fewer children than necessary to maintain their population. If overpopulation is your concern, you have to look elsewhere, and the measures you need to prevent it will be different.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm also an early millenial / late GenX and broadly support the things you mention.

At the same time, how do you explain that earlier generations were happy to start families well before national pharma care, etc.? Before people were concerned with the climate crisis they were terrified of a population explosion (hence China's one-child policy), nuclear war, etc.

My intuition is that the difference is that they were more financially stable and they were able to maintain a family with a single income, which provided them with both the money and the time that raising children require. So, maybe we should focus on that instead.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Basically, the “no immigration” path i

That is a strawman of your own creation. All I said is that I want my children to have the opportunity to have kids of their own if they wish to, which currently seems unlikely because our government does not prioritize fostering the conditions under which young people choose to start families.

I would prefer Canada to grow primarily through its own means rather than relying so heavily on immigration to avoid economic collapse.

If you prefer not having kids or grandchildren, that's fine by me, but don't assume we all want the same things.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That is a false dichotomy. Housing is expensive in Canada due to zoning laws forcing a very inefficient use of land, among other reasons.

I lived in Europe for decades, so I know for a fact that making our streets pleasant to walk around isn't some weird utopia, it is the basic reality in many developed countries.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

And I want my children to have the opportunity to have kids of their own. In my experience, when young people feel financially secure and are not working themselves to death, they tend to start families. I want our kids' generation to have that opportunity.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Seriously. I’m in my mid-50s, and the bleakness of my generation is staggering. Nobody wants to be alive anymore.

I'm a decade younger. I thought Gen-Xers were doing decently well, at least compared to younger generations.

What sorts of problems are you folks having? I'd love to learn more.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Living in an area that is beautiful matters, and our urban landscapes are a big part of that. Trees, decorated facades, town squares, they may add some economic cost, but why is that the only cost that matters? What about the emotional cost of living in an ugly noisy jungle of concrete and glass?

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 year ago

I'm looking at 3br condos/townhomes for my car-free family and prices still look insane. We will likely have to leave the GTA.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Threatening or killing somebody using a car is taken way too lightly. People outside cars are very vulnerable to the whims of drivers.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago

There is probably no horror comparable to burying one of your children.

At the same time, I don't believe anybody should be forced to live when they no longer want to. Suicidal ideation doesn't come out of nowhere, it is the consequence of a tormented life where the desire to stop suffering eventually overcomes the fear of dying.

I hope all involved find peace.

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where do bikes fit in your overall design?

[–] frostbiker@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Alcohol is bad for you too. Are you going to ban that?

I wish they did. My father died of alcoholism.

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