We got married in 2011, moderate sized wedding and reception. What a waste of money. If I'd do it again I'd get married at a registry and then take the family out for dinner. Result would be the same and I'd probably be $20k AUD richer. 🤷
Being married is fine and pretty chill. Weddings are stupid
If you run it in a rootless container, expose it through a reverse proxy and keep it updated there's very little risk