Conflict resolution and being hard to offend are incredibly valuable skills. I'd be happy to have you aboard.
Sorry for the late response. I appreciate your honesty, and I'm interested in bringing you aboard. Thank you for your reply, and welcome to the team.
Edit/Note: Buelldozer has switched accounts based on persona preference, and will be continuing to mod but under a different name.
I am still looking for help. I mostly am looking for light-touch moderation (i.e. Giving people room to express themselves, even if it's not a happy discussion, and stepping in only when absolutely necessary).
As far as the BDSM specific element goes, since you are a bit newer to the kink/interest in general, would you be willing to expand on any of the following safety topics to help give me a better feel with your engagement with it? There are a lot of ways that various things can go wrong with bdsm, and while this will mostly be a porn community, discussion is bound to happen and we may have to step in to give more experienced advice.
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What is the primary distinguishing factor between SSC and RACK, and where would each one apply?
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What types of physical harm do riggers (shibari) have to avoid, and what tools and techniques would they use to avoid them? (At least one physical tool and one process)
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Instead of using a "safe word" like pineapple or eggplant, what is generally considered a better system?
It is, and I absolutely love it.
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Horns
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Demonic/devil
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Oviposition(?)
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Womb tattoo
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Tattoos (separate category from womb tattoo)
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Pregnant
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Young adult/"barely-legal"
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Slightly agegao
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Puffy nipples (or large areolas)
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Black hair
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Straight hair
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Dungeon
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White (for whatever reason, race is like the free space on a bingo board, theres always someone who is into it no matter which race it is)
It's not so much a podcast as a general YouTube channel, but Evie Lupine and Ms. Elle X are good listens and generally do long-form content.
I've never been into podcasts so I don't have great direct feedback for you on that front. I'll post again if I do find something.
This is excellent
I am incredibly impressed with the depth of your writeup here. You seem incredibly well balanced and have thought this out fairly deeply.
Not being available 24/7 is obviously not required, and English doesn't need to be your first language when you speak it this well, so neither of those are an issue. Being into other kinks is a positive in my mind, as you are well-rounded.
Let me just say, welcome to the team and let's see how this goes!
That sounds great, though with the pace of things right now, that may be too much. Whatever pace works best for you, it's greatly appreciated.
Sounds good, let's give it a shot then.
I have a simple solution to this: If you are the moderator of your community, just put a rule in the sidebar disallowing OF links and references. Handle it on a per-community level.