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I am now single like a Pringle! in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Thanks so much!

I am now single like a Pringle! in c/[email protected]
Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Thank you, I get it

How to continue the relationship with a hot-and-cold depressed person without being dragged down too? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I completely agree, no he doesn't do it later and I couldn't endure it apparently, because we broke up

Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Thanks so much, he didn't even seem that upset when we broke up

I am now single like a Pringle! in c/[email protected]
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I am now single like a Pringle! (lemmings.world)
 

I decided to just stay friends with him after everything: his mental health plus him not caring enough about what I like and saying stuff about how my interests sucked, wanting me to do stuff for him (buy/make gifts, watch his shows) but would never do that for me, etc. so now I’m a single Pringle boi!

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Can you give me some encouragement? Deciding to stay friends with my BF but don’t want to make him cry (lemmings.world)
 

I decided it would be better if we stayed friends, though I would still support and help him. Maybe if he starts liking my interests and becomes more mentally well, we could date again but for now IDK.

How to continue the relationship with a hot-and-cold depressed person without being dragged down too? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I wish I could make him an appointment, but we’re long distance sadly. He thinks therapy or anything won’t help :(

How to continue the relationship with a hot-and-cold depressed person without being dragged down too? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Thank you. He says nothing will help his depression, first he needs to leave his abusive dad.

He's usually like "I'll do it later" or "I never liked that show, it's stupid because I'm older than you." I'll try seeing how he is later on or find someone else.

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How to continue the relationship with a hot-and-cold depressed person without being dragged down too? (lemmings.world)
 

It makes me (18m) really sad when my bf (24m) is depressed. Sometimes he runs hot and cold and says he doesn't know if we should break up or not but then he says it feels right to be with me and he wants to stay.

Sometimes he doesn't like doing stuff for me even when I do stuff for him or doesn't like my interests much but wants me to like his. However, he can't do much of anything or talk right now because he's very depressed.

He's not like himself, and it's sort of making me feel depressed. How can I help without making myself extremely depressed too? I feel like I understand why he stopped doing certain stuff, and he says he can't show love for me like he could for his exes. He said it felt right to be my bf but that he didn't know if we should date.

Ugh... so I'm starting to develop feelings for someone and I have a BF. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Thank you so much. 🫂

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Ugh... so I'm starting to develop feelings for someone and I have a BF. (lemmings.world)
 

I hate this. So I (18FtM) have a BF (24M) and he has been showing me less affection and not really taking an interest in my things or what I want to do. He doesn't really like my interests but it's okay, we've been getting along. Sometimes, he doesn't even know if he wants to be with me, but it's okay.

Meanwhile, I just met this guy (19M) earlier today and we're really hitting it off, although we just met. I'm starting to like him and IDK what to do because I like my boyfriend too and probably like him more.

My BF says he doesn't know whether he wants to date me or not. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

He doesn’t know if he’s ready for a relationship in general, thank you so much

My BF says he doesn't know whether he wants to date me or not. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Thank you so much, hopefully he'll act better soon. If not, I'll leave for sure.

My BF says he doesn't know whether he wants to date me or not. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

That makes sense, thank you..

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My BF says he doesn't know whether he wants to date me or not. (lemmings.world)
submitted 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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I made a throwaway so as not to clutter my main. I'm a bit sad but he doesn't want me to feel bad. He keeps me so he's not lonely, but he doesn't know whether or not he wants to break up and just strings me along, I guess. "I love you" one minute, "let's break up" the next. My mom says I'm being played, IDK.

I don't even know what we are because he keeps trying to walk out of the conversation and he doesn't care about my interests or what I want. I've tried talking to him, he says it's the way he is. Also, he gives me words of affirmation but apparently my brain says that's not enough. I don't know anymore. Just venting, ugh.

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