Regardless of how you host Nextcloud, what you described is one thing I really like about Nextcloud: the major part of it being synced to several devices. As long as you have a computer with the desktop client that's on every once in a while, your stuff is saved across different devices.
I've had a similar thing happen once btw, deleted the wrong server. It was "just" monitoring data, but I had spent a lot of effort building it properly. I eventually started over it, but knowing the whole thing is gone feels really bad.
Cool thread idea! TOR has already been mentioned, a relay seems to be save to run in most of the world.
This thread recently popped up and had some other nice ideas: https://lemmy.ca/post/40649656