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[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 42 points 3 months ago (9 children)

It implies that for a man, sucking cock (a legitimate sexual act for any gender) is an insult because that would make him gay. So Homophobic.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

imo the pejorative connotation of that word, and homophobia generally, is ultimately rooted in misogyny

"always has been" meme with "wait, it's all about maintaining the patriarchy?"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Dam I thought it was just a thing boring white ppl say. Imma used that retort.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

its because hes submissive. its a power thing not a gay thing

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (6 children)

That's still degrading to fellators.

And idk if I'd say it's a power thing, cocksuckers are the active participant in a blow job, and I'd say the submissive one is the one with their meat between a pair of teeth.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (4 children)

its still at the end of the day giving pleasure to another. giving the key word: power thing. its the same atmosphere as bootlicker

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

If you think going down on someone is only a submissive act you haven't gone down on someone long enough, or teased them enough.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

thats not what i think im explaining the insult

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Being submissive in sex can be expressed in a blowjob, but so can being dominant. Most sexual acts can be either dominant or submissive under the right context. For example a person can forcibly (consensually) throw the other person down, pin them to the floor and start going down on them while not letting them orgasm. Is the person being overpowered and forced to be frustrate by not orgasming the one in power?

Your understanding of mutual respect and love is unhealthy if you compare going down on someone to bootlicking.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

im comparing an insult to bootlicking. jesus christ you people really feel like arguing over absolutely nothing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I think you are missing the point, which is that "cocksucker" should not be used as an insult because it's homophobic. Even if you personally identify it as a power dynamic insult, it does not change the fact that it is rooted in homophobia and that the OOP most likely used it without any thought as to its meaning and history but rather it just came to him as a viable insult (internalized homophobia)

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (5 children)

So, if you were to replace 'cocksucker' with 'towelhead', slut, Yid, or Nig*** would that still just be a power thing?

Not that it actually makes a difference. This 'power thing' you refer to is controlling abuse for self interest. Introducing a predudice is just a way of trying to justify and/or hide the abuse.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (11 children)

Okay but like, in regular penis-in-vagina sex, the man is (theoretically) giving pleasure to the woman while also doing all the work. Is that still power play? Is pussyfucker the same as cocksucker?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

i mean yeah, pussyfucker if you used as an insult would be quite a weird insult to throw, but it would work i suppose.

Motherfucker is also in the same vein like the other commenter suggested.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

He could have also said "vaginalicker" but he didn't, he used a well known homophobic slur. Also, if he wanted to say submissive he could have used well known submissive insults.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Man, I love cocksuckers I'd get me one of those

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Or you’re Swearingen from Deadwood. /s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

I think I know where he got his name now

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