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Lol. But on a serious not i know people that got therapy for that and they are completely normal people. Everyone has quirks and pedophilia is also one of them but the problem is when it takes over your rational judgement and you do something you shouldnt. This is why hate the median portayal of pedophiles, while i agree that if you commit such an act that makes you a horrible person but most people with these desires do not commit acts. It should be viewed as any other medical condition, it can be treated. There are also other philias which are lets say less harmfull to other people but are self destructive and you can go to therapy for them as well. The hardest part is starting therapy and realizing youre not alone and you shouldnt be judged for something that is out of your control. This is why im saying people who do commit ARE and should be treated as criminals as they choose to comit the act even if they didnt chose the desire. Hope im not gonna get downvoted to fucking oblivion.
You're not far off. As a parent, the idea of someone sexualizing my kids in any way makes me seethe. Like there are people I wouldn't let my kids be alone with for a second just because they give me bad vibes.
But I do have to concede that it's a psychological thing that people have, even if I wish they didn't. I have to imagine that if anyone got to choose, then they certainly wouldn't opt for that. I agree that the "kill your local pedo" mentality drives these people into the shadows where they won't seek help, and may actually victimize kids. I just don't know if I have the ability to look at someone with that mindset and be totally free of judgement, even if they do seek help.
I totally understand your point of view as well. You cannot expect someone to be rational when their kids or family is on the line. Its the same reason for why the victims family doesnt have a say in the sentencing of the offende.
That's when you should expect it more. Mistaking what is and isn't a threat creates danger, also for the family, that needn't be there.