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I totally get the joke, and Pedro can only be a good thing (huge fan, pray daily that he adopts me). But I do understand why some men would find it insulting. What's your thoughts?

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[–] [email protected] 130 points 1 week ago (2 children)

But I do understand why some men would find it insulting

Good IMO. Maybe men need better role models. I find it alarming that men in general don't find it insulting that rapists like Tate and dumb fkn meat heads like Rogan claim to represent masculinity.

I say, keep praising men like Pascal and shitting on men like Tate. Maybe the message will finally get through.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The multiple downvotes on this post and your comment is exactly why the kind of thing that lead to the meme being made in the first place

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

You can see the serial downvoters on https://lemvotes.org/ and then just ban them.

Sorry for posting in this thread as a man, I hope it is acceptable to do so in this case. I also feel the downvote brigade is a bit much.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's so cool to see my tool actually being used by people.

After the exams in the next few days I'll have the time to add new features.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I was wondering, is your tool open source?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Of course.

Not making it open source would be a very shitty move. That reminds me, I should link this repo on lemvotes.org

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

awesome, thanks so much!

I was hoping it might be open source so I can run it from my local ...

Might I suggest adding a .nvmrc or using volta pin to pin the node version, I had to infer the node version is v24 based on the Dockerfile 😅

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Sure! Btw will you be running this on your own server? If so you need a Lemmy instance as well, I assume you're lazysoci.al's admin.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I'm lazy and was just trying to set up the tool locally, and I was hoping to point to a remote instance like lazysoci.al but I see it depends on a database 🤔 This might not work as I was hoping ...

EDIT: I see, the voting information comes from having a Lemmy instance, federating to the instance is what allows the admin to see the vote information (who voted for what, etc.)

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago

It is women only but as mod I'm 100% happy with a man offering protective practical support. And don't worry we are used to the downvote brigade! Thanks for looking out for us ❤️

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Omg, I’m finally going to find out who downvotes every cat post

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

so useful, thanks!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

We can but hope 🙏

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Woah that's actually quite the downvote brigade for Lemmy. Not too surprised at this point though, unfortunately. They've been more or less behaving themselves since you started this community but it definitely looked to me like others had also tried and failed before you came along.

And the only comment that I've had removed here on Lemmy so far (that I'm aware of at least) was talking about the horribly lopsided stats when it comes to men vs women supporting the Afd and the ideological divide in general. And that was within like my first week here lol. So this is the impression that I have of this place.

And sorry for the 3rd paragraph but on the note of others trying and failing, feels like this community is picking up more steam daily. So I don't see this one going anywhere. Definitely not without a fight.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago

Thanks music, we've been lucky with the members we've had. And no, we won't go down without a fight! #Sisterhood

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

I wonder if there's an automoderator tool to make the first comment of every post a pinned reminder of this community rule