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As a legitimate question what do I do if someone else is like this? Being around that makes me feel sad because I don't feel trusted and like they think I'm dangerous, I don't want to try and force it or anything, and fully understand why they are that way, it's just I really don't like feeling like "you are dangerous."
I think my advice would be to just give them space and let them approach you in their own time
I've been in a similar situation. It seems it's the only type of person I seem to attract. They pursue me, only when I eventually reciprocate they freak out, and self-sabotage ensues. In my case, the only thing was to walk away, because they were dragging me down with them. Some people can get past the trust issues (I have my own issues that I've been working through), but others can't. So I don't actually have any advice, sorry.