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[–] [email protected] 49 points 2 weeks ago (21 children)

i mean people tend to like confidence, also you get to stop wallowing in ignorance. conventionally attractive or not, either they say yes or no and then you get to move forward from there. going from not knowing to knowing, that is a positive.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 weeks ago (13 children)

You should know when it is appropriate to ask and when not:

Don'ts:

  • complete strangers
  • people who cannot retreat, e.g. cashiers, waiters and the like, on a busy train/bus in an elevator etc.
  • people clearly not in a space to socialize.
  • asking for sex
  • being ambigious about intentions

Do's:

  • people you held a normal conversation with before
  • in a space where they are comfortable and either party can leave easily if things get awkward
  • being clear about it being a date
  • public place with individual privacy, e.g. going out for a coffee
  • no alcohol or other drugs
[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

Don't forget the most important 2:

  • Be attractive

  • Don't be unattractive

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Most women in my experience find a clean well dressed man more attrattive that a hot sitnky styless mofo. Take care of yourself. Face card can decline gentleman privilege is real.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

every girl crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man

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