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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by gavi to c/lemmynsfw

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Any critiques, desire for clarity, outright hatred, whatever have you. I will respond the best I can.

I know there's been some blowback on some of the policy updates but it's been difficult to really explain fully that the restrictive content policy is temporary, this community was very unmanaged for a time and it had to be reigned in somehow and with the limited tools at disposal the temporary policy changes were made.

Here's a comment that also explains a little bit behind the decisions made recently as well.

For community mods, we have a community mod coord matrix group chat now. Feel free to DM about it.

Also, there's another ongoing discussion regarding SFW communities on lemmyNSFW here.

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[–] Kinkybiscuit 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You make some good points above, but I would recommend making an account on FetLife and seeing how wild people can get consensually.

I can without a doubt tell you that the following has been consensually performed with partners, and in all cases because they desired it, not myself.
-Impact play - to the point of causing visible bruising.
-Rope play - this can range from the artistic to the painful. Type of rope, and acts performed while tied can vary greatly including chains between nipples and clit.
-Needle play - ok, this one I couldn't do, but the partner did this one to themselves. Piercing nipples and clit with surgical grade needles.
-Whipping - the thing with whips is they can actually look a lot worse than they feel, but you can go the other way as well and cause pain.

Tears will absolutely happen in many of these cases, and it is something they want. Consent is a tricky thing to derive from a photo, but I would not say any of the items listed above imply consent or not.

All that said, your point that the character is highschool student I would say is valid, provided she is underage.

The wealthy/older man comment I'm not understanding....