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To be clear, it doesn’t matter how you try to clarify your point in later comments.
The reason people are responding to you negatively, as if you implied being gay was a choice, was because that’s what you implied. The VAST majority of people read it that way.
If you aren’t capable of saying “I can understand that I phrased my initial point badly, I’m sorry. Here’s what I actually mean:”, then you simply aren’t worth talking to. You can be as self righteous as you want, or try to twist what you said earlier into being technically correct, but it just doesn’t matter. You have zero right to condescend to people who read and responded to the actual words you said.
I think this is an overreaction to someone trying to explain and clarify their point honestly
Honest is not the vibe I get. I see someone trying to weasel into a position of “I was right all along”
However, I appreciate your perspective. My own hostility may be disproportionate, I will more carefully consider this in the future
My comment was written poorly and it was rightfully downvoted. I did my best to explain my thoughts in the comments and edited my initial comment to add context.
I have no ill will towards people reacting negatively, I did my best to explain my stance, certainly did not intend for it to sound condescending.
I'm not here to win you over and it really doesn't seem like there's any actual discussion happening anymore, so I'll peace out. Have a nice day.