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[–] [email protected] 37 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Ok I understand the comments here where people are saying they dislike sex scenes that don't advance the plot. However there are certain movies where sex scenes are essential to the plot such as Boogie Nights. I can also think of examples like The Name Of The Rose where a sex scene is thematically improving the film (in my opinion).

Sex scenes in film/tv are hard to get right but I'd prefer if directors worked harder to capture/deploy them properly rather than a large facet of human experience disappearing during script interventions by producers and studios.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Boogie nights was high art.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (2 children)

rather than a large facet of human experience disappearing during script interventions by producers and studios.

If sex is a facet of human experience then so is video games. Why don't movies often show people playing video games? Perhaps we should treat the lack of gaming in movies as a serious issue too. /s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Something about How To Plan An Orgy In A Small Town?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I know you said /s but I've thought similar things. I think it's because unless it's two characters playing couch co-op, then it's not really social or character building. Even eating lunch together gives the characters so much more "business" to work with.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Drag was making a point about how not everyone likes sex, and calling it a "facet of human experience" is a little grandiose from that point of view. Drag used the video game equivalence to illustrate that point to heterosexual non-gamers. Drag likes to fuck dragons, but drag respects asexuals and thinks about how allonormaty affects them. It's asexual awareness week.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

This makes no sense to me. What else would be worthy of being called grandiosely a facet of human experience if not sex? Sex has it's olace among the importan experiences of human life - it's how human life starts. It's an important driving force, it influences people's life, decisions, relationships, even lack of sex and the resulting frustration influences human behaviour. Asexuality is actually very interesting for the same reason - it's a lack of something that most people experience. I wpuldn't mind more films woth openly asexual characters. Falling in love is depicted very often even though there are aromantic people who don't experience it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What else would be worthy of being called grandiosely a facet of human experience if not sex?

Death. The reaper man comes for us all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, sure, I didn't want to say there are no other facetes, just that sex is one of the important ones. I wasn't really askin :) The death and birth are kinda key, right?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Also breathing, eating, and pooping. There are millions more who do those things than who do sex.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Breathing and eating is represented pretty abundantly in films. Pooping not so much, probably also because it's a taboo. To be fair, apart from needing a break from time to time, pooping doesn't usually really influence your long term life decisions and relationships.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I think we're on the same page, but you gotta look at the data a little differently. The way I see it, if we're cutting down on sex scenes that are unnecessary to the plot, then the number at the end is what's left. That's the number of scenes that do advance the plot, and the number isn't 0.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I agree, but the downward trend is from the 00s when directors would just hamfist sex scenes into movies and shows regardless of whether they're relevant to the plot. I like to think we're trending back to normality where sex scenes actually serve a purpose instead of being there just for the sake of being there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

The number is going down, it is not going to zero.

So, how about out of 20 movies, 18 cut the crap, and the other two put some fuckin effort into their sex scenes.