I wouldn't talk about lives or wives and daughters on this one. The argument that "Their guy sucks just as badly as our guy" isn't the brilliant argument some people think it is.

The Biden presidency saw the end of Roe vs Wade and Obama, though he had the power to codify abortion rights into law, chose not to and later said publicly it wasn't a priority. All the Democrats did in response to the Roe repeal leak was use it for fundraising, which suggests that everything they say about caring for womens' rights amounts to an empty fundraising pitch.

And, when it comes to lives, remember that Genocide Joe was committed to letting Israel bomb kids with your tax money until the literal end of his presidency. The ceasefire starts when the next president assumes the office.