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[–] CM400@lemmy.world 117 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Just guessing here, but I’d assume it’s because the unborn have potential and the bad guys had their chance. I don’t agree, but that’s what I assume being around some people like that…

[–] humblebun@sh.itjust.works 11 points 5 months ago (3 children)

You are a bad man and you should feel bad about yourself

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Well, I at least thought it was a little funny.

[–] kambusha@sh.itjust.works 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I'm assuming it was sarcasm/a joke too, but hard to know these days, without either knowing someone, or the obvious /s. Some crazy people out there...

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[–] vzq@lemmy.world 77 points 5 months ago (3 children)

As someone recently told me, they don’t worry about saving lives, they worry about saving souls.

You need to abide by the quaint rules of the magical sky daddy for that, even if they don’t make sense.

[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 30 points 5 months ago (3 children)

Except clearly any aborted fetus would immediately go to heaven based on what's written in the bible. In fact, heaven should be absolutely completely full of dead babies based on miscarriages, stillbirths, etc. if you believe that they get a soul at the moment of conception.

So that logic doesn't really make sense either. Which is par for the course.

[–] vzq@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Uhh no? Non-baptized souls go to limbo according to Christian theology.

[–] BlameThePeacock@lemmy.ca 24 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That depends on which flavor of Christianity you're looking at, but even the Catholics don't think they go to Limbo, the pope had an entire study done on it, and the result was "we hope they go to heaven but we don't know"

A lot of the other denominations don't subscribe to the original sin shtick, and therefore babies would go to heaven even without being baptized.

[–] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I always loved the "do uncontacted remote tribes that haven't heard of God or Jesus go to heaven?" question. So far everyone has answered yes. And then you realize that Christians could save everyone, everywhere, forever, just by destroying all their literature, not teaching religion, and letting it die with them. One sacrificial generation and everyone is saved forever.

But they won't do it because of greed and pride, the core aspects of their belief system.

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[–] slickgoat@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Actually, nobody goes to heaven when they die (according to the bible). Everyone must wait until judgement day when all the graves, etc, open and we all face judgement at that point. This surprised me when I first learned it because it goes against all the Christian culture I've ever been taught and experienced.

So grandma isn't currently in heaven no matter how good she was.

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[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 18 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

I dont think it really has anything to do with that. A state recently sued due to abortion and teen pregnancy reduction efforts leading to decreased teenage pregnancy rates arguing something along the lines of our populations are going down and it will cost us in population, political representation, and federal resources.

This is about cheap/free labor, disenfranchising women, and maintaining a permanent disabled and poverty-stricken underclasses that keep everyone on up in line with the hierarchy

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[–] Sibbo@sopuli.xyz 42 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Arguably, an unborn baby cannot be guilty of anything. But an adult sentenced to death is often guilty of some horrible crime. So if you accept killing as a punishment, there is no contradiction.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Until you realize that our court system is FULL of false arrests, and the courts have some stupid high number like 98% conviction rate.

They say "take the deal, or the court will fuck you".

2 years vs 30 years.

And then later they run a second trial for something else that has a death penalty as the outcome. The jury is shown this guy, already in prison, for a semi-related charge. Already convicted of the other charge. So his ability to appear innocent is already swayed. And now suddenly there's no deal. The court goes full hammer. The jury is made to believe he did it 100%.

And he can't say he didn't do it, and wasn't even there, because he ALREADY pleaded guilty to the other charge which would place him there.

So now you got a populace, who wasn't in either court session, not seeing how this escalated, and not willing to believe our court system may be flawed. Just kill the criminal and move on, right?

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 8 points 5 months ago

You are overstating it. all evidence I can find is only a small percentage are not guilty. Of course that small possibility is enough for me to be against the death pentalty. If we had a way to be 100% sure of guilt I'd favor death but since we don't I can't go that far.

[–] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 36 points 5 months ago

They're obsessed with punishment. A lot of them see unwanted pregnancy as a just punishment for recreational sex.

[–] EatATaco@lemm.ee 35 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It only sounds like a contradiction if you take "pro-life" literally. In fact, I find this hard to understand at all if you simply just listen to pro-lifers.

Let me be clear, I'm about as firm a supporter of a woman's right to choose as they come. I'm also adamantly against the death penalty. Do you find this position to be contradictory?

However, the general position of "pro lifers" does not contradict this at all, pretty obviously. They think that a fetus is a child that hasn't been born yet, and because it hasn't been born, it's completely innocent. So you have no right to take it's life. However, if some person in life has done something in life that removes that innocence, they believe sometimes that rises to such a heinous level that they must be permanently and irrevocably removed from society.

There are other glaring contradictions in their position, like not wanting to provide support to that innocent baby once it has come into the world, but this is clearly not one of them.

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[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 33 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I think they just see it as very simple: killing innocent babies - no, killing evil criminals - yes. It sounds perfectly alright if you don't think about it too much.

[–] sanpedropeddler@sh.itjust.works 31 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Because people receiving the death penalty theoretically did something wrong, and fetuses did not. I'm neither against abortion nor pro death penalty, and I don't really see a contradiction there.

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[–] C126@sh.itjust.works 31 points 5 months ago (1 children)

My understanding is that they consider it ok to kill someone who committed a heinous crime but not ok to kill someone who is completely innocent.

[–] atx_aquarian@lemmy.world 16 points 5 months ago (2 children)

This is exactly how I used to see things when I grew up in a conservative echo chamber.

And now that I recognize a person's right to choose and tend to think capital punishment should probably* not be legal, I'll add that it's not that my underlying beliefs changed, just how I now understand things. Some people do deserve capital punishment. And innocent people should be protected. But personhood doesn't start at conception, a person conceiving has a right to decide what happens to their body, and the state can never be trusted to administer capital punishment.

*I say "probably" because I also think it might be necessary to allow it in extreme cases. My reasoning is that if people don't believe the justice system will adequately punish, they have incentive and no ultimate detergent for taking justice into their own hands.

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 12 points 5 months ago (5 children)

But should we even punish?

I don't mean to troll, so let me explain. Why do we punish? I think it's two fold, we punish to deter crimes and we punish to exact revenge. But the fear of punishment doesn't deter crime https://nij.ojp.gov/topics/articles/five-things-about-deterrence and that leaves revenge as the only both intended and actual outcome of punishment.

Is the current costs of running a complicated criminal justice system really worth it, if all we get from it is revenge? Does revenge make society better? I don't think so.

I'm not advocating for anarchy either. There should be consequences for criminals. I'm just not sure what the consequences should be, but punishment is ineffective. I get that we have personal responsibility, and free will. And I'm not trying to excuse criminals, I'm just saying that punishment doesn't work.

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago

One aspect of punishment is retribution for the victims when there is nothing else and another is to keep people that are harmful away in order to keep other people safe.

Here in Sweden we have a current massive problem with organized crime that are now systematically abusing our criminal justice system that is built on humanitarian ideals for rehab and protecting suspects and criminals rights to the absurd. So yes, in those cases I think punishment will do. Cynically abusing protection measures of society deserves punishment. It may not change those individuals for the life they have chosen for themselves but it will keep them out of making even more damage to society and violent crime against individuals and I honestly see no problem in harsh consequences for their own decisions.

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It doesn't work as a deterrent though. In states that have the death penalty people still do bad things.

[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 27 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Because they don't care about "life".

They care about punishing people.

[–] bamfic@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

An unwanted unplanned baby is punishment for having sex outside of marriage.

Death penalty is punishment for being convicted of murder.

It's perfectly consistent when you look at it all about punishment.

The cruelty is indeed the point

[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 25 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The death penalty doesn't control women.

[–] umt 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's a pastime of liberal pundits to point out that the pro-life governor of some flyover state also supports the death penalty and so on and so forth. We get incredulous and infuriated at their blatant hypocrisy. We call them stupid, which really sets them off [...] They don't think of themselves as self-serving hypocrites or idiots who can't keep their facts straight long enough to form a cogent argument in continuity with the rest of their ideology. We try to describe this as “cognitive dissonance” or other give other armchair diagnosis that doesn't fully capture what's going on. I'd like to give them more credit than that. They clearly believe in something, and in that context their words and actions would make sense, but it's not what they're self-advertising when you ask what they believe in.

From still the best description of american conservative thought I've read: an essay by u/kin7es: https://wiki.dlma.com/belief-system-of-republicans

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[–] rozodru@lemmy.world 22 points 5 months ago

Because it's not about saving lives, it never has been. It's about control.

[–] ragepaw@lemmy.ca 22 points 5 months ago

Because it's never been about anything other than control. The right to choose anything is abhorrent to them. The only rights they want you to have are the right to be dictated to and the right to be like them.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's not all the same people: Roman Catholics, for example, tend to oppose both.

[–] dhork@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Roman Catholic doctrine opposes both, but the bishops don't go around threatening to withhold religious services for politicians who allow the death penalty like they do with pro-choice politicians....

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[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

There's no logical contradiction between believing that some people should be killed and believing that other people shouldn't be killed. You might as well ask why a soldier would shoot at his enemies but not his allies

(I'm not picking a side in the "Are fetuses people?" debate here. They are from the point of view of the people against abortion.)

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 5 months ago (1 children)

contradiction

You’ve discovered conservative politics. Party of freedom that wants to restrict women’s access to healthcare, books in schools, reproductive rights, healthcare for children, etc.

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[–] Yeller_king@reddthat.com 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

They would argue that the "baby" is innocent.

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[–] linearchaos@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago

In the end, it's because they're told that that's the way it is.

Abortion makes a an easy political point. Vote for the children.

Being hard on crime and executing people, That's another easy political point. Vote for the law abiding citizens.

They don't care that those two things are at odds They don't care about life or death. They care about their own exact situation, and don't really give a rat's ass about anyone else. They believe that the team they're backing gives them the best advantage, and that's absolutely all they care about. Beyond that, it's simply consuming and regurgitating the propaganda, self-perpetuating.

[–] november@lemmy.vg 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Kind of seems like a contradiction

They don't care. There's no point in calling conservatives out on hypocrisy. Only a very small number of them will give a shit, and those will be the ones who were already having doubts.

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[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world 14 points 5 months ago

They don't actually care about life, they just don't want women to have control over their bodies.

[–] Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 5 months ago

Because with reactionaries, the cruelty is the point.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'm pro-choice, but mostly anti-death penalty, isn't that a contradiction?

I don't really think so. A person's bodily autonomy and the state's power to execute citizens should not overlap.

[–] Seasoned_Greetings@lemm.ee 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I think it's not necessarily a contradiction to hold your pro-choice and anti-death penalty stance, but it's still a contradiction to hold the pro-life and pro-death penalty stance if your reasoning behind the pro-life stance is that all life is sacred.

I agree that a person's body autonomy and the state's power to execute citizens should not overlap, but I still think that giving the "all life is sacred" line to justify pro-life and then being pro-death penalty "because some people deserve to die" amounts to hypocrisy.

[–] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Forced birthers don't actually care about "life". They care about violently controlling anybody who isn't a pale bro.

[–] chalupapocalypse@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago

Because they are hypocrites, once that baby leaves the womb they give zero fucks.

Don't get an abortion, also we aren't paying for that kids lunch

[–] Nosavingthrow@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

IS it a contradiction? I don't agree with the death penalty or anti-abortion position, but I don't see some essential link between either position. You can hold two different beliefs about two different things is how come.

[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

They literally call themselves pro-life and then express support for the death penalty.

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[–] Ixoid@lemm.ee 10 points 5 months ago

It's not about ethics, it never was. It's about CONTROL.

[–] cranakis@reddthat.com 9 points 5 months ago

I blame religion.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

Liberals in favor of reproductive rights also tend to be against the death penalty. Is that a contradiction? Conservatives love twisting this into “they want to kill babies, not criminals.”

Do you think they’re right about that? Or is it more nuanced of an issue? If it’s more nuanced of an issue, then it’s more nuanced in both directions.

Liberals prioritize the woman’s ability to decide what happens with her body. They don’t like abortions, but they think they must be allowed if that’s what the woman chooses. They also recognize that it’s a medical procedure that’s absolutely necessary sometimes and other times might prevent an unwanted child from being born into bad circumstances. Meanwhile, liberals tend to be against the death penalty because our justice system is very flawed and innocent people have been put to death in the past. Perhaps a woman is allowed to decide what happens to a congregation of cells inside her body, but people shouldn’t decide the life or death of other people when imprisonment is always there as an option.

Conservatives think in terms of essentials and things are very black and white. It’s either a baby or it isn’t. They think life comes from god so it’s his affair and not our place to countermand a new life that he’s just brought into being. Meanwhile if a grown person with a mind chooses to commit crimes, that’s on them. God makes some pretty hard judgments in the Bible so they think great we can too and that will make us like god. Conservatives also tend to believe that some people are essentially good, and others are essentially bad. And in that framework, once a person has shown themselves to be a criminal, you know they are bad so what’s the point of letting them live. Meanwhile you have no idea if a fetus in the womb will be good or bad yet.

Please don’t downvote me for understanding both positions :)

[–] beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 months ago

They’re both cruel to anyone “below” them (this is a simplistic argument.) They’re easy to cry wolf about in order to draw people over to your side, people who vote and act emotionally

[–] PunnyName@lemmy.world 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

Punishment. They aren't against abortion, they're pro punishment. They don't think any laws should be about mitigation or helping, only as a means of punishing.

It's in how they talk: "she should have kept her legs closed"; "that's what you get for being a slut"; "if you don't want to have a baby, don't have sex". The pregnancy is a punishment for anyone who wants to have sex, but doesn't want to have children. And jail or death is the punishment for avoiding that previous punishment.

When talking about gun control, too: "why should I - a law abiding citizen - be punished for the actions of a few criminals?"; "ShAlL noT bE INfrInGeD". They don't want laws to do anything but punish. Mitigation? Expansion of freedoms of "them"? No.

Look at voter ID laws: they're restrictive to our freedom, but proposed as punishment for "fraud".

And it often stems from an individualistic and Evangelical ideal. Everyone is "responsible" for their actions. There are no systemic issues in the mind of an evangelical. God is punishing the individual. The laws are punishing the individual. We don't need to change, because we includes I, and I don't need to change, because "I'm a good Christian warrior in the fight against evil".

And evangelicals definitely think there is a spiritual war going on, so punishment of the "wicked" is always an option. Because being wicked is an individual issue.

(Also why they think drug addiction is a moral failing of the individual, not a societal one, and therefore they should be punished).

Right now, evangelicalism and their Christofascist views are moving into political positions of power. They have tons of money coming in, and even if Fuckface 45 (their evangelical God-king warrior) doesn't get into office, they'll still continue to influence policy and grab seats of power.

We need to be aware of them, and stop them at every pass.

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