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I am often intrigued by how widespread a lot of extended and even non-extended families are, and it's fascinating to think of family members coming from different places to visit each other and having family gatherings with a bunch of different accents. What countries do you have known family members in?

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (1 children)

how do people have so much family? I have like 10 family members that I know, and see once a year. they all live in my country aswell.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Well, each of my parents has 5 siblings who all had kids, so I have 2 siblings who have significant others and 2 kids each, and 17 1st cousins on my mom's side and 14 on my dad's side, many of whom now have their own children (I think we're at 18 or 19 now, but I don't facebook, so it could be over 20), plus the 12 uncles and aunts, and then there are the in-laws who have a less tidy structure, with 4 parents, 1 full sibling with 4 kids and 2 step-kids and 3 grand kids, 2 half siblings with 2 kids and a step kid, and 2 step siblings with 3 kids. And her mom had 4 siblings...

The big reunions I remember as a kid (for my great grandparent's families) were well over 100 people. Because they all had 4-6 kids because that's how you ran a family farm.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

wow! that is crazy! i always dreamed of huge reuinions, but From peoples stories i feel like they arent as amazingas i assume

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Hah, can confirm that they aren't amazing. Or at least mine isn't. Let's just say I sent video of one cousin at the capitol on Jan 6 to the FBI.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Close family: Norway, England, Jamaica, South Africa
Extended family: Sweden and Germany

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

For me, it's New Zealand, America, France, and the UK.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Only Canada.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Literally every family member I know of (including very extended family) lives in the USA. The vast, vast majority all live in Ohio.

We did talk about how my grandma's grandchildren all live rather far away from her. Her sisters on the other hand...pretty much all their grandchildren live like a 10 minute drive away. Somehow we got the gumption to move away from the rural area we were from. They did not.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

US, Canada, and Denmark, though my brother was stationed in Korea for a couple years as well

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Bosnia and Poland. Im from germany

[–] Semjaza 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)
  • The UK
  • The Netherlands
  • Germany
  • Ireland
  • New Zealand
  • The USA
  • Canada
  • The People's Republic of China
  • Chile
  • The Republic of China

That's quite a few places.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Austria Serbia Greece Romania Turkey Egypt Algeria Iraq Bulgaria Romania

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Canada, USA, Paraguay, Germany. For a while, Brazil, Columbia, The Netherlands, and The Cayman Islands were on that list, too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Sweden, France, Canada, Czech republic ,UK , USA and just yesterday one of cousin moved to India out of all.places

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Germany, Switzerland, Romania, Norway, France, Spain, Austria, and USA

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Germany, Bahrain, Belgium, France, and Qatar.

I actually wanna move to Belgium one day, so it's nice that I can get some help and advice from a family member whenever I need it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

To my knowledge, all my family is American and reside here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Australia and The Netherlands.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

If we don't count cruises and one day port visits, I might not have any living family members who have ever left the US.

Although, I had one half of my family all move to the South, so they bring back various accents when they visit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

My family is all in the US, though some cousins have done semesters/years in Japan and Germany. Extended family (branches from my grandfather's family) in Italy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

USA, Bangladesh, Austria, Singapore, Japan

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

I have a sister in US, a cousin in Germany.