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[–] [email protected] 180 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I think this really speaks to, "It's not what you have, it's who you have." You could have millions of dollars and the biggest house in the neighbourhood, but you won't be happy with any of that if you have a partner who is terrible and mean to you.

Happiness comes from finding joy from what you already have rather than longing for what you don't.

[–] [email protected] 143 points 1 month ago (3 children)

This would be profound if Carly and Rodney were guaranteed free healthcare, UBI, and other minimum requirements for living ao that being happy with what you have isn't crushed by chronic illnesses and endless debt.

[–] [email protected] 97 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This. For me, saddest thing about this comic’s message was the fact that I immediately wondered how they would handle needing a root canal or if one of them broke a leg.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Or a weird lump checked out.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Oh, that's simple. The root canal they'll handle by going to the ER, getting antibiotics, and not getting the tooth taken care of until it has to be extracted completely (or just breaks off at the gum line, and taking antibiotics way too often for it)

The broken leg they'll get done at the er, too.

In both cases it'll lead to debt they likely will ignore, because what the fuck else can they do?

But the lump? That one they'll just ignore. It isn't actively painful, and there's nothing they can do for it, anyway. So they'll just die young.

Money isn't the root of all evil... But is damn sure the tool of evil.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Love of money, as in greed, is the root of all evil.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

People managed in the past without healthcare. A lot of them died younger as a result, but you can still live your life without it I guess.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

Suffering and dying young isn't "living your life", it's suffering and dying young. They suffered through horrible illnesses, lived in pain because they had to and had dozens of children to make sure some of them reach adulthood rather healthily.

In the US I'd have already died more than once, and if not would be either homeless with crippling debt or criminal to pay not just for the cancer treatment years ago. Instead today, after injuring myself working on my hobby, I went to a doctor to get a tetanus booster (just in case) because I forgot to do it earlier. For free. On a sunday. As someone currently unemployed.

That's the way it fucking should be. I'm so fed up with people relativizing unnecessary suffering, including living in existential fear of illness.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

People managed

A lot of them died young...

You can still live your life

You can't live your life without healthcare if you die young. What are you even trying to say here?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

You live your life up until the point you don't

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

People have managed without oxygen before. I mean, you'll die in a few minutes as a result, but you can still live your life without it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

In many countries, these basic needs would be a non-issue.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I think the message can be interpreted though. It doesn't have to be taken so literally.

I am the exact same person today in my big adult house with my grown-up job as I was 25 years ago in my tiny little apartment living off $9 an hour. Houses, cars, jobs, promotions...these things don't really change who you actually are. A 25% raise at work won't make you 25% happier.

You can still have a job that pays money and benefits and choose to downsize the rest of your life and eliminate all that stress. You don't need a 3,000 sq. ft. house with a 3 car garage and a marble kitchen island to be happy... You're still going to be the same you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes, if you ignore the obvious signs that they are in poverty and bordering on homelessness it is a great message.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I don't disagree. I grew up as poor as the characters in this comic and we were definitely not happy like they are. It's fiction and doesn't account for the harshness of reality and very callously ignores the lack of a social safety net.

However, the point of the comic still hits home. Life was much simpler when I was young and poor. The complexities and unnecessary stress of the life I lead now seem almost ridiculous in comparison.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

One hundo percent 😞

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean, the richest man in the world is busy meddling in everyone else's affairs. Clearly money is not enough to satisfy.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Well if he were less of a sociopathic asshole we'd all be better off.

And yes wealth at that level corrupted him.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Absolutely.

I lived a lot like this during the 2008 recession. I was always looking for work, but there was none to be had. So we spent all day watching arthouse DVDs from the library, having sex, cooking, making art, and talking philosophy in our 250 square foot apartment. At times, it was truly beautiful.

However, there came a time after a year or so where the money really ran out and we got evicted. The relationship imploded and it all went to shit.

My takeaway is that, for long term happiness, stability is important too.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This is what I’m afraid of. I have a plan for getting rich but I don’t have much of a plan for getting over the loneliness I feel.

Actually I’m afraid to get rich because I feel like that will be the end of any opportunity to genuinely bond with people.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Statistically you don't have to worry about it. Unless you have rich parents, your plans of getting rich will very likely fail

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Then don't get rich :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

You reminded me of a song I had totally forgot about, thank you. I’ll post it here https://youtu.be/6TmJw8j2Eos

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 month ago (5 children)
[–] [email protected] 140 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Its not a joke, its just a message, telling people that being happy doesnt have to rely on wealth and fancy stuff. That there is nothing wrong with being happy with a simple life.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Most disappointing punchline ever 😂

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 month ago (3 children)

There is no punchline and there isnt supposed to be. Are you trolling?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Nah, I got trolled by the comic: was expecting a punchline, so I read all that story for nothing.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I also expected a joke from a comic. But I read the whole thing, and when there wasn't a joke, I didn't mind. T'was a beautiful journey. Definitely wasn't for nothing, for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah it was ok, I was just hoping for a little joke at the end like something norm macdonald would've told 😅

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Norm isn't for me, but sure.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If you got nothing out of the comic, that's very sad for you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not really, it's just stating the obvious, and her boyfriend sounds like a moron 😅, but if she enjoys his shower thoughts that's nice for her.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I genuinely pity you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Don't judge a book by it's cover.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I think the punchline is that she can be distracted from an existential moment by something as simple as chicken nuggets because they are exactly the kind of simple pleasure thst makes her life with her partner worth living. I think it's rather sweet.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not everyone has to strive to be the best to be happy?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Ah I see, makes sense. And kinda criticizing society for judging based on stereotypes, right?

Thank you!

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Even someone who has achieved modern Zen mastery can still get excited about chicken fingers.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Well, you now how life sucks a lot?

Sometimes, finding joy in the simple things helps with that.

Once you find that level of simple joy, it opens you up to really look at yourself amd the universe in a new way.

Part of that new way is to be deep into a moment, pondering the connection you have with everything, and then to let go of that in an instant and go enjoy some chicken tenders because that's what life can be about; the mingling of the sublime and the mundane into a numinous whole.

There's a bit of a joke in it too, where it doesn't matter how deep you get, you still have to fuel the body and return to earth. But this comic isn't about being funny per se.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

You're not a tiny speck in a vast uncaring universe.

You're a person caught up in weave of the giant sweater that is our reality.

Enjoy the simple pleasures of life. And take some time to stare up at that great big universe that we're all part of.