Out of the loop

I used to think drag was just a troll account making fun of neopronouns, but I don't think that's accurate anymore. Dragon Rider used to go by Dragon Fucker and uses "drag" as drag's only pronoun, and like I used to, a bunch of people thought drag was just a troll. But if it's a bit then there's nothing to the bit other than a weird pronoun, drag just seems like a decent person from what I've seen. Drag also made a very genuine looking post about drag's struggles with mockery and disrespect, mainly from .world users and admins, and drag's struggle to avoid self harm over it. I think Dragon Rider is a cool person and people (including me) should give drag the benefit of the doubt, or at least avoid drag and don't be an asshole if you don't like drag.

I think drag also once told someone who was feeling suicidal about the state of the world that they should fight rather than killing themself, and a bunch of people took it in cartoonishly bad faith and now say drag told someone to kill themself. Bc nothing screams "kys" quite like "don't kys, you can do some good"

We are all witnessing a master class in fucking with the trans community, that’s what’s going on

The short version is the a user, initially “dragon fucker”, who then changed their name to “dragon rider” to make the bit less obvious, was the embodiment of the “Apache attack helicopter gender identity” meme.

The premise of their identity is that they fuck dragons, and their pronouns are “drag”. This is, on its face, hilariously delusional at absolute best and a troll at worst.

My list of issues with drag is long, but some of their greatest hits:

Reporting everyone who didn’t play along with them as transphobic. This caused issues over at Bahaj who, bless their heart, gave drag the benefit of the doubt.

Harassing users in DMs, up to and including pictures of themselves saying “bet you would like some of my girlcock” or something to that affect

Things get a little conspiratorial past this line

I’ve been around Lemmy for a while now, and after seeing drag talk, I am 100% convinced they’re another iteration of an equally terrible user called DroneRights.

It was the same MO, their “gender” was that they were a “drone” in a “hive mind”. Again, patently absurd and should never have been taken seriously, except they would regularly try to get users banned for being “transphobic”.

I think all of this is just a bit to subtract from actual trans issues, which is exactly what it did. It reframed the discussion around gender identity and pronouns on Lemmy to “oh but what about “xenogenders”, and “neo-pronouns”, which is like…. Just the epitome of what the left gets made fun of for at this point.

It all ended with drag getting banned from blahaj for sharing DMs with the admin, though I’m sure it was a straw that broke the camels back kind of situation

I hypothesize we see another, similarly deranged account within a few weeks and the cycle will continue.

You should listen to the voice that's telling you not to add more spoons to this already heavily-stirred bowl of shit.

I have no idea what this is about, as "Dragon Rider" could refer to an abundant number of popular fantasy series, so I am curious to see a real answer about it.

I would have to imagine if it is anything like most other "drama" these days, it's entirely meaningless and effectively just translates to a rage bait mine that one could try to exploit for ad revenue or imaginary internet points or something. Something people will completely forget about in a week.

Tbh, at this point, there's no tl;dr that's realistic, and everyone has kinda covered it so well in the past that my best advice is to scroll back through this C/ and find the previous posts. It really has been done to death.

I think I've given my synopsis of it maybe three or four times, and those versions are likely better than what I could come up with again.