ALoafOfBread

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 minutes ago* (last edited 23 minutes ago)

I can see it now. Grey pigtail braids draping down the shoulders of Steven Bannon's geriatric, porcine form, skirts swishing, while he attempts to seduce the aging pedophiles on the island. Time and time again he fails. The men look at him with disgust. "Oh no. They all think I'm ugly. Daddy Epstein will never make me a model now", he thinks to himself, tears welling up in his dead, rheumy eyes.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (17 children)

Most folks in the south are good, honest, hard-working people - but the levels of propaganda aimed at keeping them ignorant and blaming minorities for systemic issues are hard to overstate. That coupled with a crumbling education system, poverty, and voter suppression is what keeps the south voting against the best interests of the majority of people.

The average Southern voter is just trying to do the right thing with the information they have access to. Doesn't make them any less wrong, but it does make the situation more morally complex.

It always makes me sad when I see people in Left spaces saying things like "it serves them right" etc etc when disasters occur. Sure, the majority of voters may have voted for policies that caused these things, but they are ignorant and have been lied to their whole lives. Not to mention all the folks who have been disenfranchised by the system.

Edit: for those responding: most. Most people. Like 40% of people don't vote. And another 25+% vote Dem. Of the remaining 30-35% that decide elections for Republicans, most of those are extremely misled, either thinking Dems are to blame for Rep policies that harm them, that Dem policies will make it impossible for them to make a living, etc. etc. A subset of those 30-35% are just outright evil and either want to throw everyone under the bus for a few tax breaks or are just rascists/bigots. But, that is not most people. Note, I don't lime the Democrats, but their policies are significantly less harmful than Rep policies. If you actually talk to people in the South, you would understand that. Some are out-and-out ghouls, but most people are miseducated, poor, and have been told who to blame by the powers that be.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

So "remain silly" = build class consciousness & engage in direct action? Sweet.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Over 50%. Voter turnout is low & is higher among Republican voters (who are on average more able to vote due to economic and voter suppression factors). Not to mention that they aren't the ones who'd be deported.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (8 children)

I would hope that Canada would accept refugees persecuted by an oppressive dictatorship the same as any other country. Not only do I hope that, I'm pretty sure they would.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (24 children)

~~Yeah, Lyme Disease can potentially cause that. It's weird they're saying "meat allergy" and not lyme disease, but lyme is pretty bad and can cause lifelong complications (post-treatment lyme disease syndrome)~~

Edit: guess I'm wrong

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It's a pretty common occurrence for ADHD and Autistic folks. I'm a little bit autistic (Aspergers) and come from a family where literally everyone but me has ADHD, but I was always generally NT passing due to a lot of anxiety and really high levels of masking. I still am NT passing, but when I was informally diagnosed (by psychologists not psychiatrists) and agreed/identified with the label, I stopped masking as much. I don't know how much other people noticed (they probably didn't), but it was a big difference for me and allowed me to be more aware of the reasons behind some things that I feel and do - and to be able to forgive myself more for not being "normal".

I don't mask as much now, but I'm able to tell people things like "I'm sorry if what I said came off as me being angry or rude, I have a hard time monitoring the tone of my voice and I didn't mean to come off that way". So I have a better level of self-awareness and can still help other people understand my intentions & can communicate better without flat-out outing myself as autistic to other people.

Also though do please try to brush and floss regularly. Tooth pain/cavities/decay are no joke - you only get one set of those bad boys, gums don't grow back, and you can't really imagine how much it sucks to get nerve pain whenever you eat or drink things until it happens to you - then it's too late. (No shame, only F E A R )

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Brutalist fast food restaurants? Don't threaten me with a good time. Fuckin love me some brutalism

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It really depends, but ultimately a lot of social interactions can only happen between two people at once. Say you and your wife get into a fight. Instead of fighting it out & making up, she now has the option to stop fighting you and go hang out with your co-husband - and you aren't invited. She also has the option to emotionally strong arm you to get her way by not only stonewalling you/withholding affection, but also by threatening to push you out of your marriage for another guy who literally lives with you both. Conversely, she does the same thing to the other guy.

Basically, now all those 2-person social interactions that happen in a marriage become much more complicated due to the presence of a 3rd person.

You'd need to have a lot of trust in your wife (and this other guy too) - she'd need to have a tremendous amount of emotional stability and be non-manipulative. She'd suddenly have a lot more power in the relationship in a very inequitable way.

My wife and I are very into monogamy. But she has a serious temper and can be very manipulative when she's angry (she's gotten better about this, but it's a known issue). It'd be very easy for her to do something hurtful. I'm not talking about sex, just the emotional threat of turning to someone else for relief from me - and the implied threat of pushing me out.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Based. Putting your kid's life at risk should not be allowed just because you think your religion says so.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Bro, it's the original Lemmy instance. It does not matter what instance you're on. I have two accounts with the same name one on dbzero and one on ml - feel free to peruse.

You didn't give me anything to respond to except for: "MAGA and Marxist-Leninism are equally incoherent" - and you gave nothing to substantiate that point, ergo it is a "braindead take" because it required no thought. If you want it to not be a braindead take, then make an argument rather than an unfounded (and probably uninformed) statement.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Okay I'll bite. Meet the burden of proof. Explain what you mean. How are the MAGA ideology (to the extent that there is one) and the Marxist-Leninist ideology equally incoherent? And, similarly, in what ways are potential views on this particular issue as expressed in that letter shared by MAGAs and MLs?

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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I want a NAS solution to back up my PC and host media files, but prebuilt NAS solutions are incredibly expensive and underwhelming and so I'm planning to build one. Does anyone have recommendations for a NAS interface?

I'm brand new to server management and would prefer something user friendly. I have used linux mint, but currently use windows as my daily driver (planning to switch to mint soon). I'd be fine with a dedicated NAS OS or with something I could run on mint since I'm already familiar with that distro.

 

Pretty much the title. I've been training for 5 months, injured for 4 weeks in there - just came off of a 2wk recovery from a knee injury. I'm relatively young, 6ft 175lbs, in pretty decent shape.

But I overexert myself to the point of vomiting nearly every class. It's frustrating and embarassing.

I've started doing more cardio and have improved a lot in that regard, but it doesn't seem to help at all on the mats. Do I just need to do more cardio? Is there something nutrition-wise that could help? Open to any and all suggestions.

Edit: Thanks everyone for the advice. I will try 1) not try so hard and ask partners to help me with that, 2) advice to talk to my doctor - I have in the past and he wasn't much help - but it got me to do some research... some medication I'm on can cause hyponatremia, which can cause nausea and vomiting especially after exercise... so I'm going to try a saline solution before/during class and may report back if it works.

Edit 2: took a 3% hypertonic salt solution to class today and it seems to have worked. I asked a higher belt to really push me in a difficult roll after class to test it. Not certain yet, but seems to have fixed the vomiting

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