Brainsploosh

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

May I suggest finding other divergent people to hang with?

ASD people allegedly have similar social patterns and can communicate more naturally with each other (after breaking through masking habits). But even beyond that neurospicy folks share experiences and perspectives that hopefully lead to camaraderie, understanding and supportive interactions.

When my partner started doing this the friend group quickly started bringing stim toys and made low sensory times and/or areas for their interactions. Dinner parties have a quiet room. Hanging out can be parallel play. Headphones are norm. Etc.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I'll disagree with your take on masking. What you're describing is social skill.

Masking as a term is used when the necessity of those erodes your sense of self, self determination, affects your relationships and/or ability to function in other areas of life.

For divergent people, who by definition aren't normatively interacting, the need to keep up a facade is greater. Already to maintain relations with their allistic peers, but also because being divergent puts the onus of adapting on you in all other situations as well. Suddenly it's not just that you have to play a persona for your friends, you also have to carefully monitor their every behaviour to know if they respond correctly, plan your next set of interactions for the correct response (beyond showing particular interest), and at the same time uphold the right amount of spontaneity and engagement.

Allistic people do this as well, but in ways that are natural to them. Perhaps you can imagine that divergent people have to breathe manually, all the time.

[–] [email protected] 40 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Putins declaring ceasefire because he can't assault if the Ukrainians fire back

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

"Increasing many by hostility foreigners" makes no sense, I think they got it right.

[–] [email protected] 63 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (24 children)

Raising water temperature from 10 to 500 degrees requires about 500 calories/mm3. That's 2 MJ/litre, meaning if you want to heat 1 liter/second you need 2 MW with perfect insulation, so a power plant of say 10 MW.

A post industrial world citizen could probably get by on 200 l/day (US averages about 300/day). That needs 2 kW/person/day.

Total global energy production is about 630 EJ which averages out at about 12 TW.

Meaning if the whole global energy production went to treat water in that way, we have enough clean water for about 6 million people.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

I believe the point being made is that it's the racist caricature of such a font, and not an actual one.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Fine! Fine, stop twisting my arm, I'll just have to rewatch it all again...

(I typically do every couple years anyhow :p)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Walter Koenig plays a telepath cop/internal affairs antagonist in Babylon 5. A masterful performance in showing off the inhumanity/monstrousness of clashing perspectives through a thoroughly unpleasant yet relatable character.

His and Andreas Katsulas' performances carry most of the series, and Katsulas' heavy drama often counterbalanced with the lighter Peter Jurasik.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

With Bester in the background I immediately distrust their hand in it...

 

Sometimes one just doesn't have the energy to do what needs done. How do you manage it?

(prompted by the thread about repetitive topics)

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I've been asked to make a Thai Red curry with chicken for a larger party, and they've asked for the soup to be of variable spicyness.

I was thinking that maybe I could do the soup mild, and have an additive with extra spice.

I could go with chilli oil ofc, but I'd prefer to have the richness of the red curry flavors if possible.

Is there a good way to make some kind of red curry seasoning? Do I just offer the guests red curry paste to mix into the soup, or should I mix it with something?

 

In the sidebar you can choose Subscribed/Local/All in the top bit, and then again in the comms list.

On top of this, Local and All show up twice in the comms list on one of my accounts.

Screenshot

 

When logging out and in, my Favorited communities are removed and I have to add them manually again.

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Bug: My subscriptions don't show up on any of my accounts.

After the lemmynsfw.com update I tried to access my lemmynsfw.com account but not being logged in, my subscriptions didn't load for that account.

I've since tried to relog into that account but failed, and after that I've had no subscriptions in my list on any account.

Posts still load correctly in the subscribed feed.

 

One of my favorite creators made a little vlog [3:33] about finding herself a stick on a gloomy day.

I just found it today, and thought it might delight this comm.

Hope you enjoy.

 

It would be nice to carry my subscriptions over between alts somehow, as well as being able to share a curated list with a friend.

Thank you for all your work, Boost is the Best.

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