Edwardrotik

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Oh, absolutely a demand.

The problem is that it's a very complicated thing, and that means you can't just gonna someone willing, they have to have the experience and skill as well, or it's going to end up bad.

It really isn't something most doms are into as their own kink. Picking up the "tricks if the trade" means having to spend your own time learning something instead of having fun for your own ends, if it isn't also your kink. That's as rare as finding a dom that has the kink tbh.

Back when I participated in the local scene, the feminization side of things was fairly rare, and not part of what most bdsm groups did when they met.

That being said, it can be fun to take part in, even if it isn't your kink. I have done scenes with sissies before, and while it isn't something I would want to do regularly, particularly if it involves sexual intercourse (be it oral or anal), even that is fine for the occasional bit of experimentation to get out of the comfort zone.

That's where most doms I've known stand on it. It's not their main focus because it really is a focus for a sissy. If you aren't doing that part of dominance, they tend to not be fulfilled by a session. It's kind of like pony play in that regard, you have to specialize in it to really get anything out of it long term.

But be patient. Be willing to communicate well with any potential dom so that there's no crossed wires. Doms that aren't used to the feminization genre of play can make mistakes that are easy to avoid if they're talked out in detail ahead of time. The few times I did it, I was lucky enough that the sissies I was playing with were very experienced and let me know what they needed rather than expecting me to magically know the ins and outs of it all. I know that breaks some of the immersion, but until you find a long term partner, that's the only way to go.

It comes down to the demand being much higher than the supply.

Well, you don't have to be having sex with a guy to see his cock. Don't even need that to see his hard cock.

You just have to enjoy or be willing to be present when men are going to be present, naked, and possibly aroused.

Which is a long way of saying that I rarely have had sex with men, I don't enjoy it. But I've seen a lot of cocks, aroused or otherwise.

I was a nurse for a long time, and I enjoy group sex and orgies, as well as group bdsm.

Yes, some of them can be quite surprising. All kinds of sizes, angles, and colors. They can bend into very unusual arcs as well.

There was a gentleman at a party that was fairly long, fairly narrow, but it bent three times, almost into an § shape, like a double S. He called it his literal trouser snake.

There's all kinds of colors that can surprise you until you learn that they can happen. Very bright blues and purples for sure, but also greens and oranges. It isn't going to be an all-over coloration most of the time; the majority is going to be shades of brown to pale colors. But I have seen a few cocks that were a dusky purplish blue on the shaft, building to blues and purples on the head. It's all about the combination of melanin and blood under the surface to make the light refract and reflect in interesting ways.

They can be very lumpy sometimes as well. Football (american type) shaped is not super rare, and having bulges is common enough that it ceases to be startling after a while.

Because he's showing off instead of serving the visuals.

The awkward position, exaggerated movements (that don't serve his coperformer), and strange angle all combine to make the scene look more like a demonstration of how not to have sex than an engaging and arousing sex act.

Plus, it changes the visibility of the female performer. Which isn't going to be a problem for everyone, there's people that watch hetero porn for the male performers, and that's great. But it does detract from the hetero viewing experience as well as making the scene itself ineffective (or less effective) as porn.

That's one of those situations where the male performer is trying to show off and ruins what would otherwise be a great scene

Agreed!

That is an amazing photo, just from an artistic perspective

It is to keep repeating the same thing over and over despite it being patently absurd

You're talking to the wrong person with that. The comment you responded to was from a different user. Check the user names.

And I'm fairly certain at this point that the other user is right, you're either trolling or mentally disturbed

Yeah, you're putting words in his mouth. You misread, or misunderstood, but you're way off the mark

Dumb on everyone's part.

Years and years ago, I was partying a good bit. Had a small group of friends, we'd hang out, smoke some weed, play music, etc when there wasn't a bigger party, like a live show or a rave (it was that far back lol).

So, things could get a little frisky. We had a back room at the house where the nights would often end up with some sexual activity. It tended to be just couples having sex with each other, independent of other couples.

But, sometimes things would bleed across. Sometimes there would be simglese that would join in.

This means there was a degree of understanding that was necessary. New people needed to be aware that sometimes a hand might reach, or someone might ask to join in, the little ways of crossing the barriers, and that no was okay.

Anyway, one of those nights, we had some music going, and one good friend brought ecstasy for everyone. I had never rolled before.

So, we take our pills, and start having fun; there's massages, dancing, etc. The guy that brought the pills was playing dj. His girlfriend and I are exchanging back rubs, and she asks if I want head. I look over to my friend and ask if that's okay. Yeah, her consent is what really matters, but I don't like fucking things up.

He shrugs and goes on playing music.

So, I'm kicked back getting head. Pretty decent head too. I come, she swallows, and I offer to reciprocate. I do my best, and she seems to enjoy it. The party continues, and we all head to the back room. Well, I'm making out with my partner, but the girl I got head from is watching closely. It turns into a bit of a three way, with the girl on my face while my partner is riding me. My friend is getting left out, and his girl is not noticing, so I offer him a hand, which he accepts.

Eventually eventually, the four of us all come at least once, and we leave the room to the three other people still going at it.

Great time, right?

Welllll, turns out that my friend would have preferred none of it happened. He was rolling hard, and his shrug was less of an "I don't care" and more of an "I don't wanna say anything, but no it isn't okay." His girl had a habit of kind of ignoring him in general, and he had asked her for some special attention that night.

And it would have been okay anyway if the head had been the end of it, but that didn't extend to another session. He was pretty upset at being ignored by his girl, and even the friendly handjob I gave him (which, btw, had him hit my chest and his girl with his jizz) didn't help since he was being ignored by her.

Now, if I had known any of the stuff about them, I would have turned down head. And I wouldn't have let her join me and my girl later either.

But, he doesn't say anything to me about any of it until days later, after he's had the bad feelings fester long enough that there's no fixing things.

It was dumb all around. Everyone involved (except my partner, she was awesome) just wasn't communicating well.

Such a delicate set of inner labia.