Quirful

Gorgeous. Does she have a handle?

Stunning

Lemmit's not part of this community, though. Having access to another instance doesn't make this instance "worse", it just gives users here more options. If you don't want to see it, you don't have to.

My last point is talking about instances like Lemmit, hence why I mentioned it specifically.

I think defederating instances that post illegal content makes sense, as the admins are responsible for the content on their server.

I think defederating instances that host belligerent users and content makes sense, because it protects those that are targeted by them.

I don't think defederating instances that post content some people don't want to see makes sense, a la Lemmit. If the admins want to go that far, you might as well close off the entire fediverse and only host content at your personal approval. Dunno why you'd need a Lemmy instance for that.

...both?