Tywele

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[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Tell me about it. It’s an exercise in frustration to find good fitting clothes as a trans woman because most clothes don’t come with a sizing table and if they do they skip the most important measurement for me: shoulders.

Or it can be a real punch in the gut when the description includes what size the model in the photos is wearing. For example the model is the same size as me (1.74m) and wears a size S. And I’m like great I will take that in L or XL…

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago

Or like something that got typed by that same college freshman by falling asleep and hitting their head on the keyboard.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 32 points 3 days ago (2 children)

What is it with open source projects and their awful names?

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 days ago

Your therapist should give you tools to change these things that's why I mentioned them. You have to use them and want to use them (changing your thought patterns). I see this all the time with people coming here who don't know how to proceed in life anymore and they always dismiss everything that is said to them. You have to want to change, nobody is doing that for you, they can just give you the tools to do so but ultimately it's up to you.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

I switched to Boost for Lemmy a long time ago when It became clear that Sync is pretty much abandoned.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Changing habits, thought patterns etc. A therapist can't do that for you, that's something you have to do yourself thus "work on yourself"

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

I think I used one of these "turn your name into a fantasy name" generators in like 2007 and changed it a bit and that is my username pretty much everywhere now.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago

Scheduling an appointment for my SRS

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 week ago

It already exists, it's just not shown.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

55.1k MAU are 55.1k MAU. What about that is flawed?

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 week ago

I feel pretty good. I finally saw some visual progress in my transition and I went through all of my documents and sorted them and got rid of everything I don't need anymore.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's not the same

 

So far I've found https://www.xtorm.de/collections/cables from the Netherlands and https://recable.eu/ from Germany. Do you know any additional ones?

 

I was surprised by how much I've changed in the last month. And in this photo I look so different compared to when I look in the mirror.

Right now I'm at 11 months HRT and had 12 laser hair removal sessions. I'm 32 years old and you can check out my profile for any previous progress pics.

 

Anyone else struggling to avoid Amazon because of the price of some things? I need 3M Tegaderm for example and on Amazon it cost 28€ for 10cm by 10m roll and on other sites that are not Amazon I can only find it for pretty much double the price (shop-apotheke.com has it for 58,40€ https://www.shop-apotheke.com/arzneimittel/3816512/3m-tegaderm-roll-10-cm-x-10-m.htm and medizinbedarf.eu has it for 49,60€ https://www.medizinbedarf.eu/3M-Tegaderm-Roll-Transparentverband-unsteril-10-cm-x-10-m). Stuff like this really makes it difficult.

Anyone know where I can find this as cheap as on Amazon or at least not much more expensive?

 
 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/32641679

Cloud provider moved most of its 20,000 VMs off VMware.

 

Cloud provider moved most of its 20,000 VMs off VMware.

 

If there is please tell me where! And if not: Apple why?!

 

This is the summary. It has a link to the full report.

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
 

Solution: I just had to create the file

I wanted to install Pi-Hole on my server and noticed that port 53 is already in use by something.

Apparently it is in use by systemd-resolved:

~$ sudo lsof -i -P -n | grep LISTEN
[...]
systemd-r    799 systemd-resolve   18u  IPv4   7018      0t0  TCP 127.0.0.53:53 (LISTEN)
systemd-r    799 systemd-resolve   20u  IPv4   7020      0t0  TCP 127.0.0.54:53 (LISTEN)
[...]

And the solution should be to edit /etc/systemd/resolved.conf by changing #DNSStubListener=yes to DNSStubListener=no according to this post I found. But the /etc/systemd/resolved.conf doesn't exist on my server.

I've tried sudo dnf install /etc/systemd/resolved.conf which did nothing other than telling me that systemd-resolved is already installed of course. Rebooting also didn't work. I don't know what else I could try.

I'm running Fedora Server.

Is there another way to stop systemd-resolved from listening on port 53? If not how do I fix my missing .conf file?

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