rudyharrelson

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Experimented a bit with my usual bread recipe. It's cooling off right now, so I'm hoping to have some fresh bread in an hour or so.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Based on your description, "pan" seems appropriate. I don't think ratios really matter when it comes to this kind of terminology. You appear to be, to varying degrees, attracted to people regardless of their sex or gender.

That said, I'm not sure what the distinction is between "pan" and "omni".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Much appreciated! I'll give it a read.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (3 children)

When those memories come up, choose a different response. Laugh at yourself. Forgive yourself. Love yourself.

Any recommended reading on this topic? Choosing a different response when these memories come up is really difficult for me, personally. Even when I acknowledge that I've grown as a person since then, the memories themselves still just feel jarringly awful.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The "small issue" you described is a logistical one that remains unsolved by bureaucrats, lawmakers, judges, or anyone else. "Bad actors ruin it for those who really need it" is the same "small issue" people use to argue against many services people genuinely need in order to survive.

"Deport them all and let God sort 'em out" is the course America has chosen, and it is the immoral course, as far as I am concerned.

we need more people processing immigration paperwork

Agreed, but it won't happen, especially under this administration. They don't want more immigrants, even "legal" ones. They say they are only against "illegal" immigrants, but let's be real here. Lemme know when they sign into law some additional funding for hiring more bureaucrats to parse immigration paperwork. I won't hold my breath.

When immigrants know the legal pathway is unreasonably slow and will not be improved in any way, there's no incentive to do it the "legal" way.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I cannot, in good conscience, begrudge any family who illegally enters a country when they are fleeing violence or poverty in their own country (e.g.: they are from a country that is effectively run by drug cartels, or is in the midst of civil war).

"You need to fill out the appropriate paperwork before your family can be safe" is not an argument that will ever sway me. The bureaucracy takes too long in the vast majority of cases. People are scared and want a better life.

Some people illegally immigrate for less serious reasons, in which case sure, get 'em to fill out the proper forms. But I cannot support deporting people whose entire reason to illegally immigrate was for their safety and/or livelihood.

And please note that this position is wholly a moral one, not a legal one. I am a person with a moral compass, not a lawyer.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago

Adding on to this, I'll say the term is likely used less now because, for the reasons you mentioned, the common person actually aspires to get famous for the specific purpose of selling out and making a big payday to escape the hellscape of everyday wage-slavery.

But then there are also "sell outs" that are totally situational. For example, a content creator (who I won't name because that's not the point) who's an OG that's been around for over 20 years now, constantly putting out content, never had sponsors until a few years ago. Initially I was annoyed at suddenly seeing "Sponsored by NordVPN!" and "Sponsored by RAID Shadow Legends!" in every video, but then I learned he'd had a child with his wife. And his child had a bad birth defect that required a lot of expensive surgeries.

After that, I was like, "Get that paycheck, my guy." It's hard out there.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago

I read the post title and immediately thought it might be a Technology Connections video. Great channel

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Looks delicious. Horseradish is a bit strong for me, but I could see it going nicely with this dish.

What kind of cheese does it use?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I resolved to get back in shape last year after sitting on my ass for a good long while. Happy to say I've stuck to it and am in the best shape of my life at the moment (at least strength-wise; my cardio is still trash lol).

For anyone else looking to hit the weights, I started with a simple 5x5 workout. I didn't bother downloading any apps or anything; I just keep a simple .txt file on my PC tracking my progress. Personally I'm not a fan of how hard the Stronglifts website tries to sell users an app and spreadsheets and such, but their guides are useful.

And I love Dr. Mike's channel. He's been consistently helpful ever since I started hitting the weights again. Gives great advice in my experience; super knowledgeable guy.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago

My favorite is intentionally misunderstanding questions and giving literally correct answers.

An old favorite of mine:

"Do you know what time it is?"

"Yes."

😒

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