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how long have you known your s/o, non single people? (sh.itjust.works)
 

mine, i’ve been dating for a year but met him 3 years ago.

Is he TA for refusing to call his bully ex by his preferred name and pronouns? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

i do not wish to be called my deadname (veronika is an online name and viktor is usually what i go by), so dominic should respect james regardless.

i will admit it’s hard to have empathy for the bully though if you were bullied, but i also struggle with empathy.

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

i know that but he didn’t for some reason

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

this was a post before? this is my only account, so someone just had a similar situation

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

i’m from russia, so i do know it, but not as well as i used to since it’s been about 12 years.

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

what’s your native?

In Russian, we say «goes rain»

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

«идёт дождь»

how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend? in c/[email protected]
how can i help my friend (25m) with accusations about him and his friend (13f)? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

well, i dunno. he helps her. he says hi to her, goes places with her with her parents, and tutors her. he told me he views her as “the sister he never had” as an only child.

he is of normal maturity but he is also neurodivergent so he may view the relationship differently. (not in a rude way, but like, his brain works differently so he may find some commonalities with her and not see age as a problem as long as it isn’t romantic).

how can i help my friend (25m) with accusations about him and his friend (13f)? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

fair enough, he just helps her with schoolwork sometimes, idk if they are friends like two adults are though, he calls her a friend though

how can i help my friend (25m) with accusations about him and his friend (13f)? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

it’s not offending him afaik but i felt bad 🤷

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how can i help my friend (25m) with accusations about him and his friend (13f)? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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yes, the title is correct and not bait 👍

i (22x) have a friend/acquaintance (25m) who is friends with a 13f irl, but people are calling him a weirdo.

he has no romantic relations with this girl and knows her through her dad (40s, m) but people are still calling him a creep and idk how to help besides saying he isn’t. it’s not like he went out of his way to go “hi im looking for 13 year old girls, wanna be friends?”

i feel really bad for the girl and i hope he doesn’t have any bad feelings or intentions, but i’ve heard from him he’s done nothing but mentor her and tutor her.

(i wasn’t there idk if i can truly believe it, but still)

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happy pride!! (sh.itjust.works)
 

i know everyone knows it’s pride month but i like celebrating it as a transmasc enby :) 🏳️‍⚧️

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what’s the difference between “he died” and “he’s dead”? (sh.itjust.works)
 

to me, they seem the same, but surely there’s a subtle nuance.

like, for example, i’ve heard: “i thought he died.” and “i thought he was dead” and they seem like synonyms.

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how to help friend: likes girl but language barrier occurs (sh.itjust.works)
 

my (22nb, 22ftm[?]) friend mark (20m) lived in poland since he was 4. he speaks russian, polish, and english.

his English isn’t the best sometimes, and he has foreign accent. he is in love with a woman (24f) he wants to date, but she only speaks English and his family only speaks russian and polish too. he is almost always talking to family on call the whole time in russian, and it gets awkward because she also can’t understand it.

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can you say “what it means?” as proper english? (sh.itjust.works)
 

some people who i talk to say that, like my russian friends

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ama. i’m chinese and russian. (sh.itjust.works)
 

half-european, half-asian 😊

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will i fit in more with china/japan or russia or their communities in terms of acceptance/blending in? (sh.itjust.works)
 

i am actually half-white, half-asian. i don’t know what community will accept me more, the russian communities online/in the us (since i probably won’t go there) or the east asian (chinese/japanese) ones.

i clearly will not look full white and it may have people say im not “real russian”.

dad is chinese-russian, lived in germany for a bit. (baden-württemberg i think). mom is russian.

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what’s the most romantic gesture in your opinion? (sh.itjust.works)
 

honestly, im not sure. i guess just any way that shows he or she cares about me can be romantic to me. maybe spending time with me and doing things for me??

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