swampwitch

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[–] [email protected] 141 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (7 children)

I stumbled upon /r/theredpill(?) many years ago as a 17 year old girl who had never had a boyfriend, and it lead to me developing a severe distrust of men for several years after. I simply had no solid concept of this type of male sex culture, and it eventually lead me into the rabbit hole of the manosphere. I read through their new posts and "strategies" frequently, mostly out of a sort of morbid fascination, but also a desire to protect myself from men.

It made me believe that, as I grew into a young woman, I had to be careful, as men are terrible predators that only care about sex and the feeling of conquest. I started to understand that the way I perceive relationships might be vastly different from a certain male ideal. Ironically, what I wanted from a relationship was inspired by a quote written by Louis de Bernières, a man:

Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love, which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Those that truly love have roots that grow towards each other underground, and, when all the pretty blossoms have fallen from their branches, they find that they are one tree and not two.

The only thing that undid those feelings was putting myself in the position to make friends with guys – "beta males", specifically, made me feel a lot less threatened – and coming to understand that what I feared was a certain type of man, which did not represent every man. Now, I feel that I'm quite capable of navigating around toxic masculinity and keeping it out of my life, and have been with my partner for over a decade in a relationship that has developed roots.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

When our new kitten decided her favourite scratching post was the doorframe outside the bathroom, we went ahead and bought one of those hanging scratching mats to nail over it.

Saved the doorframe, and have a happy kitten.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

I just assumed she might be British due to spelling/tone. Cats have been around here for about 1,600 years and it's considered fairly normal to let them out.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (2 children)

They should be rallying for his impeachment.

[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 week ago

Lack of empathy, especially towards women, is generally associated with conservatives due to the current political climate. Whether or not that's got any truth to it, I couldn't say.

 

Full title: Ubisoft says you "cannot complain" it shut down The Crew because you never actually owned it, and you weren't "deceived" by the lack of an offline version "to access a decade-old, discontinued video game"

Ubisoft's lawyers have responded to a class action lawsuit over the shutdown of The Crew, arguing that it was always clear that you didn't own the game and calling for a dismissal of the case outright.

The class action was filed in November 2024, and Ubisoft's response came in February 2025, though it's only come to the public's attention now courtesy of Polygon. The full response from Ubisoft attorney Steven A. Marenberg picks apart the claims of plaintiffs Matthew Cassell and Alan Liu piece by piece, but the most common refrain is that The Crew's box made clear both that the game required an internet connection and that Ubisoft retained the right to revoke access "to one or more specific online features" with a 30-day notice at its own discretion.

 

Humans tend to put our own intelligence on a pedestal. Our brains can do math, employ logic, explore abstractions and think critically. But we can’t claim a monopoly on thought. Among a variety of nonhuman species known to display intelligent behavior, birds have been shown time and again to have advanced cognitive abilities. Ravens plan for the future, crows count and use tools, cockatoos open and pillage booby-trapped garbage cans, and chickadees keep track of tens of thousands of seeds cached across a landscape. Notably, birds achieve such feats with brains that look completely different from ours: They’re smaller and lack the highly organized structures that scientists associate with mammalian intelligence.

 

Far beneath the Pacific Ocean, off the coast of Vancouver Island, a seemingly dormant underwater volcano has revealed a breathtaking secret—one that has left scientists both thrilled and puzzled. What began as a geological survey quickly turned into a remarkable biological discovery: a hidden nursery where thousands—possibly over a million—giant eggs are incubating in the warm embrace of volcanic heat.

Back in 2019, researchers from Fisheries and Oceans Canada launched a deep-sea mission to explore a 2,000-square-kilometer seamount that rises more than 1,100 meters above the seafloor. Initially believed to be extinct, the volcano surprised the team by venting mineral-rich hot water, a clear sign of ongoing geological activity. This natural heat source has created a rare haven for marine life, especially deep-sea corals and sponges.

But the true marvel came when the scientists spotted white skate rays (Bathyraja spinosissima) laying eggs in droves across the summit of the volcano—1.5 kilometers below the surface.

While deep-sea rays aren’t new to marine biologists, what stunned the team was the sheer scale of this reproductive gathering. Based on initial counts and image surveys, experts believe the site could be home to hundreds of thousands, possibly over a million eggs—a number that has never before been documented for this species.

What’s even more astounding is the size of the eggs themselves. These rays produce egg cases nearly 50 centimeters in length, resembling soft, curved pillows or even ravioli in shape. That’s massive by marine standards. Producing such energy-intensive eggs is a strategy that ensures each embryo has ample nutrients to survive the harsh conditions of the deep sea.

White skate rays typically dwell between 800 and 2,900 meters deep, making them difficult to study. But scientists now believe these females may be strategically using hydrothermal warmth to speed up embryonic development—a biological shortcut in a cold and slow world. According to marine biologist Cherisse Du Preez, incubation in this harsh environment can take up to four years, but the residual heat from the volcano may significantly reduce that time.

And it’s not just about warmth. The volcano’s summit offers shallower, more protected terrain, where vulnerable hatchlings can grow before venturing into deeper, more dangerous waters.

This rare convergence of geology and biology offers researchers a one-of-a-kind opportunity to study how extreme environments influence life. Just like the vents discovered near the Galápagos years ago, this site proves that even the harshest locations can nurture complex life.

The adaptive strategy of these rays—laying large eggs in volcanically active zones—shows an evolutionary brilliance that has likely gone undetected for centuries. And while we may never know exactly what other species share this hidden volcano habitat, it’s a strong reminder of how much there still is to explore below the surface.

As the mystery of the million eggs unfolds, it brings with it a renewed urgency to protect deep-sea ecosystems. These volcanic oases are fragile, and with deep-sea mining and climate change threatening marine habitats globally, discoveries like this underscore the need for responsible exploration and global cooperation in preserving what we’ve only just begun to understand.

This isn’t just a story about a volcano or even about a rare marine species. It’s a reminder that the deep ocean holds secrets more profound than we can imagine—secrets that challenge our understanding of life and force us to look again at how interconnected our planet truly is.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm not sure about other places, but in mod comments on Nexus it's fairly standard to just reply in your native language and have the other person translate.

You'll often see discussions with one half in English and the other in Chinese, for example.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Make America Great Again!

Spends all day every day fucking over the majority of the population.

Sure.

 

The presence of the Asian small-clawed otter has been confirmed in Nepal for the first time in over 185 years.

Mongabay News reported that scientists and conservationists have been celebrating the sightings. The Asian small-clawed otter (Aonyx cinereus) is the world's smallest otter. Its existence in Nepal hadn't been confirmed since 1839.

Many feared it was extinct in the area. Sightings were reported in Makalu Barun National Park over the years, but none were confirmed. In November, forestry department officials in Dadeldhura district discovered a juvenile otter. It was in a "fragile and injured state." Officials fed and cared for it, not realizing the importance of finding this critter.

 

The ocean is Earth’s last great mystery, a vast, uncharted world teeming with lifeforms we have yet to encounter. And now, scientists have uncovered a new deep-sea predator lurking in the shadows of the hadal zone—an extreme, inhospitable environment nearly 8 kilometers beneath the ocean’s surface. This recently identified creature, Dulcibella camanchaca, is not just a new species; it belongs to an entirely new genus, revealing an evolutionary branch previously unknown to science.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Just put the whole government in the bin at this point.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago

Trump is a genuine man-child. He probably doesn't understand half of what he's saying or what it means whatsoever, and why is "wokeness" even taken seriously as a political talking point?

He just does things he's told to do like he has no autonomy, but I guess you can't expect more from Putin's licking dog.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Ah, this is something I genuinely didn't consider.

I suppose it'd be better to pick up the games I'm interested in on GoG and play them on PC?

 

I stumbled across Baldur's Gate I & II on the app store today and was strongly considering picking them up as something to do on my tablet. I'm interested in people's opinions on those two, as well as other retro game ports available.

I never actually bothered to consider Android as a platform for retro gaming before, and I currently don't own a handheld console, so I'd love any suggestions people have.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Classism and stupidity.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Although they got a bit stuck on Hadrian's Wall.

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